no offense dude, but I despise the “I literally lied to someones face to protect them” mentality. Rip the bandaid off and do her a favour. Not telling her is misleading her on purpose, and making it out liek the ex is someone they arent: Obviously they had no qualms with sleeping with someone so soon after breakup. Ex has moved on, and she hasnt. If she brings it up again or you see a possible time to bring it up, do it. She needs to know that the ex doesnt veiw their opd relationship like she does
Remember, nothing is your fault, only your mother/uncle’s fault. Maybe your father is married for too long and his spirit is already broken since he’s being a chump, regardless it would be nice to give him some support.
Forgiving your mother is your choice but remember that forgiveness is more about yourself than about others. You do it in order to have a lighter soul and a calmer mind, which doesn’t oblige you to interact with your mother the same way, just allow you to don’t get angry or sad whenever you see her.
no offense dude, but I despise the “I literally lied to someones face to protect them” mentality. Rip the bandaid off and do her a favour. Not telling her is misleading her on purpose, and making it out liek the ex is someone they arent: Obviously they had no qualms with sleeping with someone so soon after breakup. Ex has moved on, and she hasnt. If she brings it up again or you see a possible time to bring it up, do it. She needs to know that the ex doesnt veiw their opd relationship like she does
Dude I'd like to offer advice but I have no clue what you mean. Could you clarify?
Remember, nothing is your fault, only your mother/uncle’s fault. Maybe your father is married for too long and his spirit is already broken since he’s being a chump, regardless it would be nice to give him some support.
Forgiving your mother is your choice but remember that forgiveness is more about yourself than about others. You do it in order to have a lighter soul and a calmer mind, which doesn’t oblige you to interact with your mother the same way, just allow you to don’t get angry or sad whenever you see her.
Best of Luck!!!