Interventions are about support and understanding. If you're gonna treat her like a mentally handicapped tag along puppy then ok. You wouldn't be attacking her you'd be putting the choice of being your friend in-between the stealing and lying. If she can't try to give those up based on the opinions of PEOPLE SHES KNOWN FOR 20 YEARS then have her steal some cool stuff for you or something so you yourself can move on.
If she were an alcoholic would your friends find it awkward to jump in? She's never gonna get better until people point out how out of control it really is.
The guy has been unethical because he was unsure of a huge life decision while having no stability for the last 4 years?
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Interventions are about support and understanding. If you're gonna treat her like a mentally handicapped tag along puppy then ok. You wouldn't be attacking her you'd be putting the choice of being your friend in-between the stealing and lying. If she can't try to give those up based on the opinions of PEOPLE SHES KNOWN FOR 20 YEARS then have her steal some cool stuff for you or something so you yourself can move on.
If she were an alcoholic would your friends find it awkward to jump in? She's never gonna get better until people point out how out of control it really is.
If he's not married, he ain't married.