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1. So maybe/probably he does not tell you he wants to spend of his life with you because he wants to be sweet. He makes his intentions clear to you. I think you should actually talk about this a few weeks in. When one partner is looking for someone to start a family with and the other just wants to do casual and see where it goes, both will not be happy and you can end it before it gets too serious.

   You should clearly communicate to him, that this is not a priority for you and you do not know what the future holds. Make it clear that you can't make promises now and that it makes you unconfortabe if he brings it up frequently.

   Also if we look at current statistics if you are abitiously going after a career and he has no intention to do so this does not look well. Most divoces nowadays are initiated by women (80%ish) and the most common reason for divorce is when the woman outearns the man. Women tend to want their men to be more successfull than themselves and this is just nature. Since you mention that he does not have a plan for his life moving forward, this seems to bother you, at least a bit. I would also be honest to him and tell him that this somewhat bothers you and you can outright tell him that it is very possible that in 5 or 10 years when you are having a good career and he does not, that this might bother you A LOT.

   Tell him you need to half a serious talk about your midterm future. Tell him that you do not think that far into the future relationshipwise and that right now you priorities other things, like your career. Tell him that you will be going long distance soon and that this might be a tough test for the relationship. Also tell him the part with you being abitionate and he isn't and that this might bother you later. I would also tell him, that if he is looking for a wife candidate right now, that you cannot make that commitment and do not want to talk about this in the next months, years,… Then you do not have a huge argument. You do not start negotiating. You just tell him that this is how you see things. That it might be a huge deal for him. That you want him to think about what you just said for at least a day or better a week and then have a conversation about it.

   Worst thing that can happen is that he really wants to get married soon (within 1-3 years) and is already looking for a woman to start a family with instead of keeping it open and seeing what will happen. He would break up then but it would be fair to him to lay the cards open. He might also just have said he wants to spend his life because he thinks its romantic and you want to hear it and actually be fine with keeping it more casual. He might be fine with you not wanting to commit or talk about long term family plans and agree to not talk about it anymore for a long time and see where it goes. He might also think about being a bit more amitious in his career plans or he might not.

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2. Leave your girlfriend. She just showed you that what you care about doesn't matter to her. How cruel can she be too willing to let your sister stay in a dangerous situation.

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