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Nah 3 different people speaks to a pattern mate. I should point out also if/when you break up with her from what you've described of her so far makes me think shes gonna sleep with a few of your friends to get back at you so prepare yourself for that shit. I would also start laying some groundwork with one of her friends to return the favour when the time comes
Firstly, You didn’t do anything wrong. Videos like this between consenting adults is natural.
Secondly, she didn’t find a trove of 25 different videos with different women. She found one or a couple that were missed.
You Apologized for her seeing it and deleted the video which is the only solution. If she cannot handle that due to her own insecurities, then it would be best for both of you to just walk away.
You having issues about your chest is insecurity and a serious problem. But he having issues with his body in comparison with some strong guy on movies isn't?
Leaving aside all the context (trauma, him paying for her therapy, her manipulation, etc.), I’d be out as soon as my partner told me they’d “miss [the sexual connection they had with their ex] forever.”
There are things I miss about one of my exes and a certain feeling I had with one that I can’t recreate with my husband (probably due to first love vs. mature love), but I’d never, ever tell my husband that because it would only be hurtful.
I know about my husband’s previous partners, but don’t ask for details because something like “she gave the most amazing blowjobs” would only be hurtful.
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The staying on the insurance is actually something that divorce lawyers suggest to prevent liability. While you're still married, debt accrued can be considered marital debt, even if you're separated. If you kick your spouse off your insurance during your separation, and they have a massive accident with a 50k medical bill, you might get assigned part of that debt. They say it's worth it to pay a few months or even a year of premiums to avoid that. What he does need to do is get the divorce to happen ASAP, and get out of there.
Why is nobody concerned that she is staying at her friend's house when she knows she has them? Ppl keep saying how important it is to wash the sheets and everything else, but are ignoring the fact that she is potentially spreading it. She's grown and said she slept in the other room before so why can't she just keep doing that??
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Nobody is saying she can’t go out. But going out with girls in their 20s is a hell of a lot different than a 60 year old woman going out with women in their 40s.
This has all the makings of her cheating.
And yeah he’s definitely being a doormat, but dealing with abusive and controlling behavior for years will wear anyone down.
You're being too hard on yourself. You didn't lie when you told him you didn't want kids and at the time it wasn't necessary to divulge the reason why.
Your bf changed the terms of the relationship when he changed his mind about children. Even if it was possible for you to have children, his changing his mind about children would be deal breaker as far as the relationship was concerned.
At this point you both have different objectives for the relationship and maybe breaking up would be the best course of action.
Oh dear. You think after 8 years she doesn’t know you’re a premature ejaculator?
Have you accessed medical support? After this long it will be hard for both of you. But if you haven’t accessed medical support then it’s a disservice to you both.
I was fully dependent on him financially, aside small gigs for work that I had which payed little.
He knew I kept trying and applying to every job I could find, but I was either overqualified or not the right fit or didn’t speak the local language, it was really rough but now I’m building my own company and am getting a lot of independent projects. Still not consistent enough. He seemed supportive but also was very verbal about how I’m always not doing good enough because he had higher standards. I always felt like the looser in the relationship. He would do this thing where he supports me financially but then make me feel miserable for not taking a waitress job in the mean time. He earned quite well so I never felt the pressure to do that, nor would my ego let me since I had completed prestigious universities and I felt bad being a waitress after 6 years of education. I would have had better opportunities would I have stayed in London, one of my biggest regrets at the moment moving here for him.
Dude it's so common for people to prioritize being right over relationships.
Once upon a time, I tried to complain it to a female friend that it hurts when she lashes out at me when it's not even a fault of mine, and she started lashing out even more about how I should shut up or leave her, because her mood is bad and I can't complain, that I don't have the right to complain because I cannot control her/control how she acts.
She was the wisest girl I have ever known. So, why do you feel that people dont let rage come between friendships?
I'm glad I'm not the only one who thinks it was intentional…I have PTSD and I'm VERY skeptical about his “trauma” response. I know not everyone has the same symptoms, but this just doesn't sound right. He would have at least realized he had to pee before his “flashback” started. Everything about this seems intentional, except the uncontrollable crying part, but I've seen manipulative weirdos cry on command.
She probably had doubts all along but enjoyed whatever you bring along. The engagement made things more definite, potentially aggravated the uncertainty and she started to look for the way out. This guy had finished it off for her plus gave her an exit opportunity. It’s over and probably was a year ago.
I just saw your past posts and girl….cmon he is definitely using you and stringing you along. He likes making you think he's into you but he's really not. He is playing you so you'd stay with him and he has someone to control. You deserve better l. Stop letting him confuse you and go find someone who actually cares about your feelings. Right now you are only hurting yourself by letting him play with your feelings for him. I've seen this happen when an old guy friend of mine strung along a girl until he didn't need her anymore. She was always there whenever he had a breakup, got used because he knew she liked him and then tossed away whenever he got a new gf….don't let this be you. This went on for like 4 years
i find that mentality to be very artificial. Like a script that you have to follow else you get labelled as the AH. If you're not allowed to ever explain your perspective on a situation, then everything is always going to be your fault. I think both parties need to approach these conversations with an open mind. Sometimes you'll have valid reasons, sometimes, you won't. That's how you learn.
I say this as some diagnosed with MS just under two years ago. You simply do not just bounce back after a few months. Her and my conditions are very different, but I feel a lot of her symptoms a lot of the time. I know the feelings of inadequacy and I know the feelings of mourning the old you you used to be and having to accept the new normal moving forward.
It takes time to get the right medication, it takes time to get the right lifestyle. It takes time to find the right emotional and mental support. It just takes time.
She got the undergrad degree in a science field with the intentions of med school but changed her course once she saw the cost of everything. So she is not using her degree in her current job, but it does have some application in her future job.
Y’all never appreciate the women who go through the pain of bringing half your dna to life smh. Cheating on her bc how dare her body and mind take a hit from giving you two sons
I was mainly ready to move on because I didn't care much for the divorce after everything that had happened. And I guess the ex and the best friend aren't exactly friends anymore since they had a falling out (I was also the best friends friend at the time so that's how we actually began talking. I met him the same year I met my husband. Just everything between us was platonic) a few months prior
Nah 3 different people speaks to a pattern mate. I should point out also if/when you break up with her from what you've described of her so far makes me think shes gonna sleep with a few of your friends to get back at you so prepare yourself for that shit. I would also start laying some groundwork with one of her friends to return the favour when the time comes
OK…you will not want to hear this…
but maybe somebody reading this might find it helpful.
1.) YOU have a problem. Not the family and not your boyfriend. YOU.
This is a social dynamics challenge, pure and simple.
If you met these people on a bus,
HOW would you engage with them?
2.) It is not the responsibility of your BF to MAKE things happen. Certainly he can
take your part in conversations or interactions or at events. It is NOT his place to
act as some sort of referee.
3.) This dynamic is not a referendum on your personhood. Don't make it one.
You are who you are and everything I have said to you holds true, independent of
Race, Religion, time of day, position of the stars and number of angels
that can sit on the head of a pin.
Take responsibility for your life.
Should I go to HR and inform them about my boss trying to pull off shit like that?
Firstly, You didn’t do anything wrong. Videos like this between consenting adults is natural.
Secondly, she didn’t find a trove of 25 different videos with different women. She found one or a couple that were missed.
You Apologized for her seeing it and deleted the video which is the only solution. If she cannot handle that due to her own insecurities, then it would be best for both of you to just walk away.
Well, I like to look at the positives.
You got to hit the dumbass in the nuts before he removed himself from your life.
Seriously, you are worth more than this. He’s a piece of shit. Be happy it’s over. Good partners don’t do this. Find one of those instead.
What relationship advice are you looking for?
I could have missed it, I'm tired.
You having issues about your chest is insecurity and a serious problem. But he having issues with his body in comparison with some strong guy on movies isn't?
Leaving aside all the context (trauma, him paying for her therapy, her manipulation, etc.), I’d be out as soon as my partner told me they’d “miss [the sexual connection they had with their ex] forever.”
There are things I miss about one of my exes and a certain feeling I had with one that I can’t recreate with my husband (probably due to first love vs. mature love), but I’d never, ever tell my husband that because it would only be hurtful.
I know about my husband’s previous partners, but don’t ask for details because something like “she gave the most amazing blowjobs” would only be hurtful.
Some things you can’t unhear.
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The staying on the insurance is actually something that divorce lawyers suggest to prevent liability. While you're still married, debt accrued can be considered marital debt, even if you're separated. If you kick your spouse off your insurance during your separation, and they have a massive accident with a 50k medical bill, you might get assigned part of that debt. They say it's worth it to pay a few months or even a year of premiums to avoid that. What he does need to do is get the divorce to happen ASAP, and get out of there.
Why is nobody concerned that she is staying at her friend's house when she knows she has them? Ppl keep saying how important it is to wash the sheets and everything else, but are ignoring the fact that she is potentially spreading it. She's grown and said she slept in the other room before so why can't she just keep doing that??
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Nobody is saying she can’t go out. But going out with girls in their 20s is a hell of a lot different than a 60 year old woman going out with women in their 40s.
This has all the makings of her cheating.
And yeah he’s definitely being a doormat, but dealing with abusive and controlling behavior for years will wear anyone down.
Thank you. People are saying it will fail though lol. I guess we will see.
so while we were arguing I confessed my lie.
You're being too hard on yourself. You didn't lie when you told him you didn't want kids and at the time it wasn't necessary to divulge the reason why.
Your bf changed the terms of the relationship when he changed his mind about children. Even if it was possible for you to have children, his changing his mind about children would be deal breaker as far as the relationship was concerned.
At this point you both have different objectives for the relationship and maybe breaking up would be the best course of action.
Simple; Fuck what other people think! If you and your partner are happy, and you're not hurting anyone, you do you.
Oh dear. You think after 8 years she doesn’t know you’re a premature ejaculator?
Have you accessed medical support? After this long it will be hard for both of you. But if you haven’t accessed medical support then it’s a disservice to you both.
I was fully dependent on him financially, aside small gigs for work that I had which payed little.
He knew I kept trying and applying to every job I could find, but I was either overqualified or not the right fit or didn’t speak the local language, it was really rough but now I’m building my own company and am getting a lot of independent projects. Still not consistent enough. He seemed supportive but also was very verbal about how I’m always not doing good enough because he had higher standards. I always felt like the looser in the relationship. He would do this thing where he supports me financially but then make me feel miserable for not taking a waitress job in the mean time. He earned quite well so I never felt the pressure to do that, nor would my ego let me since I had completed prestigious universities and I felt bad being a waitress after 6 years of education. I would have had better opportunities would I have stayed in London, one of my biggest regrets at the moment moving here for him.
How YOU feel and what YOU want is 100% about YOU.
F what he wants. Is he more important than your own happiness?
You broke up for a reason, you are compatible. Why carry it on? The only person you’re really hurting is yourself.
Dude it's so common for people to prioritize being right over relationships.
Once upon a time, I tried to complain it to a female friend that it hurts when she lashes out at me when it's not even a fault of mine, and she started lashing out even more about how I should shut up or leave her, because her mood is bad and I can't complain, that I don't have the right to complain because I cannot control her/control how she acts.
She was the wisest girl I have ever known. So, why do you feel that people dont let rage come between friendships?
It isn't. He just doesn't want to lose her. See this 100 times before.
I'm glad I'm not the only one who thinks it was intentional…I have PTSD and I'm VERY skeptical about his “trauma” response. I know not everyone has the same symptoms, but this just doesn't sound right. He would have at least realized he had to pee before his “flashback” started. Everything about this seems intentional, except the uncontrollable crying part, but I've seen manipulative weirdos cry on command.
She probably had doubts all along but enjoyed whatever you bring along. The engagement made things more definite, potentially aggravated the uncertainty and she started to look for the way out. This guy had finished it off for her plus gave her an exit opportunity. It’s over and probably was a year ago.
I just saw your past posts and girl….cmon he is definitely using you and stringing you along. He likes making you think he's into you but he's really not. He is playing you so you'd stay with him and he has someone to control. You deserve better l. Stop letting him confuse you and go find someone who actually cares about your feelings. Right now you are only hurting yourself by letting him play with your feelings for him. I've seen this happen when an old guy friend of mine strung along a girl until he didn't need her anymore. She was always there whenever he had a breakup, got used because he knew she liked him and then tossed away whenever he got a new gf….don't let this be you. This went on for like 4 years
i find that mentality to be very artificial. Like a script that you have to follow else you get labelled as the AH. If you're not allowed to ever explain your perspective on a situation, then everything is always going to be your fault. I think both parties need to approach these conversations with an open mind. Sometimes you'll have valid reasons, sometimes, you won't. That's how you learn.
I say this as some diagnosed with MS just under two years ago. You simply do not just bounce back after a few months. Her and my conditions are very different, but I feel a lot of her symptoms a lot of the time. I know the feelings of inadequacy and I know the feelings of mourning the old you you used to be and having to accept the new normal moving forward.
It takes time to get the right medication, it takes time to get the right lifestyle. It takes time to find the right emotional and mental support. It just takes time.
She got the undergrad degree in a science field with the intentions of med school but changed her course once she saw the cost of everything. So she is not using her degree in her current job, but it does have some application in her future job.
And this is why I’m pro choice
Y’all never appreciate the women who go through the pain of bringing half your dna to life smh. Cheating on her bc how dare her body and mind take a hit from giving you two sons
He is a meth addict.
Unfortunately, he has gone down a dark path.
He’s likely going to divorce you and contest child support payments. Unless he is an imbecile or has incompetent counsel, he will win.
You should get a better job and learn to raise that kid solo, and maybe go after the kids dad for support.
I was mainly ready to move on because I didn't care much for the divorce after everything that had happened. And I guess the ex and the best friend aren't exactly friends anymore since they had a falling out (I was also the best friends friend at the time so that's how we actually began talking. I met him the same year I met my husband. Just everything between us was platonic) a few months prior
This is excellent advice and I wholeheartedly agree with you. There is never any excuse for domestic violence. Abuse is abuse. Period.
Why does it matter?
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