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No. It is a bad idea. She only works part time? She seem very immature. Of course any partner would contribute to the living arrangement. She should pay rent.
NTA. However your husband is right she is just curious, time to get her doing little things around with supervision. This could just turn into something you both bond over and in the future could be helpful with regards to easing you work around the house
If I’m fine with this, then why does that seem to offend so many people here.
Because those people are seeing red flags and problems you don't want to see. And that's understandable, a few days ago you felt like you were in a hopeless situation and now it seems like it might maybe kind of work out sort of and you want to hang on tight to that hope and focus on the positive. I get that. But the truth is there's not a lot of positive to grab, here.
Believe it or not no one here wants your marriage to fail. They're giving advice. Last time the advice was to talk to him, which you accepted was the right course of action. This time the exact same people are seeing the results of that talk, and they're saying “this is worse than you seem to realize.” Now everybody must be wrong, because that's not what you wanted to hear.
I genuinely hope you're right and your husband will still prioritize you and the degree to which he does so will be satisfying to you. I really do. But I think what is infinitely more likely is that a few years down the line you're going to post here again acknowledging that they had a point, you were too defensive to listen, the situation has become intolerable, and now you need advice on how to get out of this marriage after having a kid.
This is predatory behavior. I would never trust that he isn’t capable of assault ever again. Frankly, I would tell his parents and withdraw completely. I would also NEVER allow him around my daughter again. IDGAF how much she loves him. There is something deeply, deeply wrong with him that nothing is going to fix.
Think about it. This entire time he’s been fetishizing you while you grieved his dead brother. He torpedoed your sense of safety to see if he could get his dick wet. This is the kind of man you keep your children far the hell away from.
No. It is a bad idea. She only works part time? She seem very immature. Of course any partner would contribute to the living arrangement. She should pay rent.
My ex had a history of doing this kind of stuff. When she came clean I wasn’t surprised at all.
NTA. However your husband is right she is just curious, time to get her doing little things around with supervision. This could just turn into something you both bond over and in the future could be helpful with regards to easing you work around the house
If I’m fine with this, then why does that seem to offend so many people here.
Because those people are seeing red flags and problems you don't want to see. And that's understandable, a few days ago you felt like you were in a hopeless situation and now it seems like it might maybe kind of work out sort of and you want to hang on tight to that hope and focus on the positive. I get that. But the truth is there's not a lot of positive to grab, here.
Believe it or not no one here wants your marriage to fail. They're giving advice. Last time the advice was to talk to him, which you accepted was the right course of action. This time the exact same people are seeing the results of that talk, and they're saying “this is worse than you seem to realize.” Now everybody must be wrong, because that's not what you wanted to hear.
I genuinely hope you're right and your husband will still prioritize you and the degree to which he does so will be satisfying to you. I really do. But I think what is infinitely more likely is that a few years down the line you're going to post here again acknowledging that they had a point, you were too defensive to listen, the situation has become intolerable, and now you need advice on how to get out of this marriage after having a kid.
This is predatory behavior. I would never trust that he isn’t capable of assault ever again. Frankly, I would tell his parents and withdraw completely. I would also NEVER allow him around my daughter again. IDGAF how much she loves him. There is something deeply, deeply wrong with him that nothing is going to fix.
Think about it. This entire time he’s been fetishizing you while you grieved his dead brother. He torpedoed your sense of safety to see if he could get his dick wet. This is the kind of man you keep your children far the hell away from.
Seriously. At least OP doesn’t have kids in the mix. Now is the time to make the move.
Also, OP maybe this means you could also relocate to be near family and/or friends that have already moved. Get a complete fresh start.
Don’t fall for sunk cost fallacy. You’ve already put in 10 years, do you really want to waste any more?