Oh dude! Listen up! Major lessons of my life that have been very hot to learn coming up here:
-You absolutely do marry the whole family. These people and their issues are not going away. In fact they will multiply as you all age and health deteriorates etc…
Literally noone but you is entitled to YOUR money!! She comes from what sounds like a family of takers. That is her problem to handle. Not yours. You guys aren't even married.
-She is going to put her family ahead if you in all different ways forever if you don't get ahold of this. She needs to understand that what she's asking is unfair to you and absolutely not normal. You need to understand that too.
-Don't marry her because you already see how overly entitled she feels to your money. I would also advise not to buy property with this person. Kids too. She's showing you that she values you less than herself and them. She's showing you and them that your opinion doesn't matter if she's loud enough
Awww..sweetheart..you are so so young still. Take a deep breath. Stop trying to date college students, you’re past that. What do you like to do? Do you have any social hobbies where you could meet someone naturally? What apps are you using? If Tinder is one of them, stop. Try Hinge or Bumble. Set your age range to 23-29. Or take a break from the apps all together. They’re all terrible.
Have you tried talking to a therapist or maybe your doctor about depression? If you work remotely, maybe it’s time for a change of scenery – move to a new city?
You have your whole life ahead of you and SO much time to on-line it. You’ve graduated, you have a career, be proud of yourself for those things! Take care of yourself. Everything will be okay..
Oh dude! Listen up! Major lessons of my life that have been very hot to learn coming up here:
-You absolutely do marry the whole family. These people and their issues are not going away. In fact they will multiply as you all age and health deteriorates etc…
Literally noone but you is entitled to YOUR money!! She comes from what sounds like a family of takers. That is her problem to handle. Not yours. You guys aren't even married.
-She is going to put her family ahead if you in all different ways forever if you don't get ahold of this. She needs to understand that what she's asking is unfair to you and absolutely not normal. You need to understand that too.
-Don't marry her because you already see how overly entitled she feels to your money. I would also advise not to buy property with this person. Kids too. She's showing you that she values you less than herself and them. She's showing you and them that your opinion doesn't matter if she's loud enough
40 year old mom here:
Awww..sweetheart..you are so so young still. Take a deep breath. Stop trying to date college students, you’re past that. What do you like to do? Do you have any social hobbies where you could meet someone naturally? What apps are you using? If Tinder is one of them, stop. Try Hinge or Bumble. Set your age range to 23-29. Or take a break from the apps all together. They’re all terrible.
Have you tried talking to a therapist or maybe your doctor about depression? If you work remotely, maybe it’s time for a change of scenery – move to a new city?
You have your whole life ahead of you and SO much time to on-line it. You’ve graduated, you have a career, be proud of yourself for those things! Take care of yourself. Everything will be okay..