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  1. You have no evidence it didn't mean something. However, it meaning something to him… doesn't mean much. As I said, it would not help him process the trauma.

    Especially as clearly he doesn't even seem willing to call it what it is. If he isn't even at the level the trauma is being acknowledged then really there is no hope of him ever truly moving past it. And whether you like it or not if it wasn't this arbitrary thing that sent him spiralling it would have been something else, like even without the guy you slept with that jealousy was not going anywhere in general, that would have caused a breakdown eventually.

    This isn't ranting, this is just putting these ideas into words. And I hope as you do it you start to see the ways in which maybe you set unrealistic expectations, or how many things involved him taking steps it is clear he is just incapable of taking.

    He was proof you can love, that you can care. That's what you need to focus on, the reality you can form those bonds. It will just be that those in future are hopefully more capable of reciprocating.

  2. Im 34yo, I consider anyone under 25 as a teenager, I dont have the time nor the patience to tolerate someone far younger than me, no matter how good they look.

    I understand why some men go for younger women, maybe because they look far better than the average early 30s woman or they dont have a tenth of their emotional bagagge. But someone who is 22 (lets use the age difference in this post as a reference) is far too childish for me.

  3. Stop having talks when drinking or right before fooling around and set a time to do it so you both can come prepared to speak on something.

  4. One of the most memorable weddings I attended was one where they met at a Comic-Con. It was a RenFaire/Star Wars mashup wedding and it was glorious. It was even on the invitation that way and yet I still was taken aback seeing Warf walking around.

  5. If he’s thinking something super subtle and discreet, like a Superman logo on the inside of his breast pocket then I can see that as acceptable. But if he’s looking to be more overt than you basically gotta uninvite him. Cuz bro you’re a grown man. You should know better.

  6. Ah yes, her husband is absolutely blameless in this situation. What was I thinking suggesting that he needs to be an active participant in their family.

  7. Girl you dodged such a bullet here. Always trust your gut.

    “I will not discuss my relationship with you. It is inappropriate for you to be here. Please leave me alone.”

  8. It's very obviously the fact that she doesn't know if he wants to marry her, in which case it would be foolish to propose.

    She also says in a comment that he doesn't want her to propose to him, so the point is moot.

  9. If these issues are important to each of you, yes, you're not a good fit. There's nothing to “see how everything plays out”. Don't wait until you've brought kids into this to have the final argument that sees you break up and ruin their lives. There's just no point in either of waiting around for the other to change, which is basically all you're doing. He's never going to see the world the way you do and it's unlikely you're going to ever convert to Islam and be what he wants you to be.

  10. So which is it, have open convos and establish boundaries or don’t because that shows mistrust and problems?

    Having boundaries is good. Discussing those boundaries is good. Being open about feelings is good.

  11. I would suggest communication (you're both wrong), but honestly someone saying “That's not true” is pretty ridiculous at this age and shows how she's gonna deal with conflicts for your whole marriage. To me that's a deal breaker, she would rather make things up, let others get heated and be rude rather than just talking like an adult.

    Honestly people like this never improve. You know what you're getting yourself into.

  12. better to find out sooner rather than later.

    But is there anything I can do if I notice my partner is flirting and getting close to someone else?

    Is there anything I can say? Or will it just be best to accept it?

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