This is a question I asked myself the first time she had an affair (whether it was emotion or physical). But I took her back in hopes it was a one off.
The thing that floors me is how loving and caring she has been since coming back, really has me turned in a loop.
Some woman want commitment up front, you want to get to know a woman first before committing, to some it would appear that you just don't want to commit and if you have slept with her may be seen as a player/scumbag. My advice when dating a woman if after 4 months you don't see herself getting to know you on a deeper level just write her off as not being what you want and cut them lose/be only a friend. If you are getting intimate with a woman under the guise that if they push the right buttons and get to “know you on a deeper level”, without any actual intention to do so, and without properly communicating what that entails, then she would be correct you are a scumbag.
Stop posting this shit man.
This is a question I asked myself the first time she had an affair (whether it was emotion or physical). But I took her back in hopes it was a one off.
The thing that floors me is how loving and caring she has been since coming back, really has me turned in a loop.
Some woman want commitment up front, you want to get to know a woman first before committing, to some it would appear that you just don't want to commit and if you have slept with her may be seen as a player/scumbag. My advice when dating a woman if after 4 months you don't see herself getting to know you on a deeper level just write her off as not being what you want and cut them lose/be only a friend. If you are getting intimate with a woman under the guise that if they push the right buttons and get to “know you on a deeper level”, without any actual intention to do so, and without properly communicating what that entails, then she would be correct you are a scumbag.