Honestly, this will be a CONSTANT thing in the relationship. If she sets boundaries about that, there will be other boundaries from her family that she will have to set. IF she sets them. But the thing is, culturally, there's a big gap here. If all of a sudden she drops it, don't expect, when y'all are married, for her not to bring it up again.
There might be a real possibility that you will be beholden to her families whims for the rest of y'all's lives. Hopefully not, but family ties are the most important in the culture.
Also, the way she's acting right now is not conducive to a healthy relationship. She didn't get her way, so now she's treating you differently. If she usually gets her way, and you haven't seen her when she doesn't get her way a bunch, then you might not know how she acts in those situations.
Im not sure how much I agree with your “Time to end the relationship” take. I personally believe its worth coming to a compromise. But I thank you for your opinion and insight
This sounds like an excuse the truth is nearly all boys age 10 and up are watching porn regularly it’s an addiction not because of a sexual experience he had when he was 10, all young boys that age want a sexual relationship and the girl was a few years older
Why is he still living with parents?
Does he have any independence at all or has he always relied on others to “adult”?
Honestly, this will be a CONSTANT thing in the relationship. If she sets boundaries about that, there will be other boundaries from her family that she will have to set. IF she sets them. But the thing is, culturally, there's a big gap here. If all of a sudden she drops it, don't expect, when y'all are married, for her not to bring it up again.
There might be a real possibility that you will be beholden to her families whims for the rest of y'all's lives. Hopefully not, but family ties are the most important in the culture.
Also, the way she's acting right now is not conducive to a healthy relationship. She didn't get her way, so now she's treating you differently. If she usually gets her way, and you haven't seen her when she doesn't get her way a bunch, then you might not know how she acts in those situations.
Congrats on the raise 🙂 Good luck.
Lady lied to you for years to trap you into helping take care of her kids and provide for her.
Im not sure how much I agree with your “Time to end the relationship” take. I personally believe its worth coming to a compromise. But I thank you for your opinion and insight
This sounds like an excuse the truth is nearly all boys age 10 and up are watching porn regularly it’s an addiction not because of a sexual experience he had when he was 10, all young boys that age want a sexual relationship and the girl was a few years older