He instantly tried to lie. 2. If he gave you a tour, and it definitely wasn't there, then it can't magically appear on his door.
Also, even if it was actually a girl from a while ago, why did he keep it?? Did he attempt to contact this girl? Why is he waiting for her to come get it? Why is it out now? Does that mean he hid it when you came over then brought it out when you left?? It's creepy to think he kept anything.
Overall, nothing good. It's barely been a month. Just cut your losses and find better.
I think i was afraid this was the case, I've been given her passes in the past for poor behavior because she still only a teenager. Who i know has had a bad past
OP I’m sorry. This sucks for you. Most people reading this have been in your shoes. Some of us more than once. You can’t avoid the pain. You can move through it though. It hurts and you feel alone and like you will never be happy or fall in love again. It consumes you 24/7. Try to keep yourself busy. It will be hot but you have to force yourself to do things like hobbies, hang with friends, work etc. even if your miserable doing these things. I remember working as a professional in the professional world and taking breaks to cry myself out in the bathroom. It sounds like a cliche but one day it won’t consume you 24/7. Maybe it will be 22/7 and then 20/7 and downwards it will go. It will always hurt but it does become less. One day the sun will shine brighter in your world and you will wake and be ok. You will on-line again and be loved. Take care and go slow. Keep yourself busy
Uh, yeah, get on your birth control again ASAP. That's absolute BS. He can't handle any additional pressure, but wants a baby right now? Also it sounds like you two don't even online together, what exactly was his plan going to be if you got pregnant, keep living separate while you raise the kid, and he goes to work so he doesn't have to deal with the pressure of a newborn?
I don't understand his whole “I'm totally ready to get you pregnant but talk to your dad about marrying you? No siree, that's a step too far”. Oh, and yes, you absolutely can make a decision of wanting to go back into birth control after his little freak out over you saying you'd like to be married in a couple years, in spite of him saying you can't noisy make those decisions. You absolutely can make a decision not to have a kid with someone who seems like he's going to leave you high and dry on the marriage front, and possibly on the raising the kid front as well.
He instantly tried to lie. 2. If he gave you a tour, and it definitely wasn't there, then it can't magically appear on his door.
Also, even if it was actually a girl from a while ago, why did he keep it?? Did he attempt to contact this girl? Why is he waiting for her to come get it? Why is it out now? Does that mean he hid it when you came over then brought it out when you left?? It's creepy to think he kept anything.
Overall, nothing good. It's barely been a month. Just cut your losses and find better.
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I think i was afraid this was the case, I've been given her passes in the past for poor behavior because she still only a teenager. Who i know has had a bad past
What? Former lover? It was just a one night stand. That’s… nothing.
OP I’m sorry. This sucks for you. Most people reading this have been in your shoes. Some of us more than once. You can’t avoid the pain. You can move through it though. It hurts and you feel alone and like you will never be happy or fall in love again. It consumes you 24/7. Try to keep yourself busy. It will be hot but you have to force yourself to do things like hobbies, hang with friends, work etc. even if your miserable doing these things. I remember working as a professional in the professional world and taking breaks to cry myself out in the bathroom. It sounds like a cliche but one day it won’t consume you 24/7. Maybe it will be 22/7 and then 20/7 and downwards it will go. It will always hurt but it does become less. One day the sun will shine brighter in your world and you will wake and be ok. You will on-line again and be loved. Take care and go slow. Keep yourself busy
Uh, yeah, get on your birth control again ASAP. That's absolute BS. He can't handle any additional pressure, but wants a baby right now? Also it sounds like you two don't even online together, what exactly was his plan going to be if you got pregnant, keep living separate while you raise the kid, and he goes to work so he doesn't have to deal with the pressure of a newborn?
I don't understand his whole “I'm totally ready to get you pregnant but talk to your dad about marrying you? No siree, that's a step too far”. Oh, and yes, you absolutely can make a decision of wanting to go back into birth control after his little freak out over you saying you'd like to be married in a couple years, in spite of him saying you can't noisy make those decisions. You absolutely can make a decision not to have a kid with someone who seems like he's going to leave you high and dry on the marriage front, and possibly on the raising the kid front as well.