Find some hobbies and build the next phase of your life. Your son is building his life with his wife. Their needs/wants/preferences dictate their life choices. Your wants don’t factor into their choices—that’s just not developmentally appropriate. Stop trying to ruin their happiness.
Enjoy this phase of your life and your free time. Volunteer with families in need. Take dance classes or start swimming. Learn to paint. Write your memoirs. Garden. Learn astronomy. There’s so much you could be doing.
You’re being nude headed and justifying their actions. I did the same. Just be objective. I’ve had partners that I never had an issue with phones and social media, yet it kept popping up in my last one. It made me feel jealous and insecure when I wasn’t. I just notice shady behavior and expect my partner to address it instead of doubling down. Talk to him and see his response. I ended it when her response was exactly what I expected (but not in a good way)
Using someone's resentment over you cheating as an excuse to cheat again is absolutely disgusting.
Interestingly enough, there’s more people on this post defending him than not. It’s fucking sad
Thank for this insight, honestly I wasn’t sure what I should do. But this really helps a lot
Find some hobbies and build the next phase of your life. Your son is building his life with his wife. Their needs/wants/preferences dictate their life choices. Your wants don’t factor into their choices—that’s just not developmentally appropriate. Stop trying to ruin their happiness.
Enjoy this phase of your life and your free time. Volunteer with families in need. Take dance classes or start swimming. Learn to paint. Write your memoirs. Garden. Learn astronomy. There’s so much you could be doing.
You’re being nude headed and justifying their actions. I did the same. Just be objective. I’ve had partners that I never had an issue with phones and social media, yet it kept popping up in my last one. It made me feel jealous and insecure when I wasn’t. I just notice shady behavior and expect my partner to address it instead of doubling down. Talk to him and see his response. I ended it when her response was exactly what I expected (but not in a good way)