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3. The way that this works for people who role play is that she is role playing WITH him- not off fucking someone else. One, or both, pretend they have a (nonexistent) significant other at home that they are “cheating on.”

   This is how a boring, practical “getting a hotel with my spouse for the afternoon because it's the only way to have loud sex without the kids hearing” becomes “meeting my lover at a hotel while our [neglectful/cheating/oblivious/workaholic] spouses are none the wiser.”

   The role-playing couple isn't cheating- they are pretending to be affair partners instead of the actual married couple that they are. For a thrill. A fantasy. Because they don't actually want to cheat on their spouse, but they do enjoy pretending to sneak around.

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4. I'm sorry, and actually felt a physical ache in my heart for you when I read this because it's so bloody familiar, but . . . take him at his word.

   Whether or not the results come back positive, please understand that you have just gotten a glimpse of who your partner really is. And as horrifying as it is, a decade into what you thought was a life partnership, I hope you understand that what he was telling you is that it absolutely is NOT a partnership, or “for life”, that his love for you is very much conditional.

   And you have some really serious things to consider because of this:

   You are still very young. You still have a GREAT DEAL of life ahead of you. And your partner has just told you without hesitation that if anything happens to you that slows you down, or where you will require his meaningful and substantial support in life, that he will not be there for you. He will just walk away. And the truth is that no one can predict whether they will become ill or disabled, and you already have indicators that you may have health challenges even if the current ones are manageable. So you need to think, not about the time you have already spent with him, but about whether you want to invest MORE of your life into building something with a man who is already telling you that he will have no qualms about walking away from you if it gets difficult. That he will let it all fall away like a house of cards.

   Let me put it a different way: I know that your partner isn't lying because he is telling you the truth I have experienced my entire adult life. I am chronically ill, and nearly every single significant relationship I had in early adulthood ended because of my illness and my partners' inability to cope with it. They would freak out over the idea of having to “take care of me” . . . which was ironic, since they could clearly see that I'd been taking care of myself for years and there was no reason to think that things would change.

   TL;DR: You aren't taking anything the wrong way. Your partner is. He is assuming that if you become ill you will be a burden to him, and he's not interested in hearing reason or reality. You need to decide if you want to continue to invest in a relationship with someone who is only conditionally willing to invest in you.

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