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You have a cold, and getting colds is an unfortunate part of life we have to learn to cope with. If you were laid up after surgery or an ER trip or had Covid & couldn't fend for yourself, that would be one thing. I would be hard-pressed to say that asking a partner to nurse you through a cold when they already had plans is reasonable? Your feelings are valid, but at the same time I think you're being unrealistic.
The difference between being civil and being Stoic is that one you do out of normalcy, the other you do to make you feel normal. I think only OP will know if they need to respond or not.
Op your an idiot you committed an emotional affair then dumped your boyfriend for a lying cheating scumbag. OP have some self respect stop being a pathetic weak excuse of a woman . He don't love you he loves that he can manipulate and use you your nothing but a ego boost to him and i guarantee he has been lying to his girlfriend and telling you both different things. OP he's a player that's all he is he knows exactly what to say and do and i promise he has other women besides you and gf OP you cheated on your boyfriend and left him and have no remorse OP you need therapy now to find out why your so willing to be with a man who will never leave hid gf and will never love you he will just tell you lies OP you deserve better Please leave this man and go NC
Good advice here overall I have a question though that I think should be addressed
When that other guy swooped in on her did that happen right in front of you? Did the other guy know that you and her were at least together and yet still made a move on her? If that’s the case I think another discussion should be shifted onto why you didn’t defend your territory in a way. Look, I’m a total pacifist and avoid confrontation at all costs but if something like that happened to me I think my natural inclination would be to at least step in the instant the other guy put his arms on her and signal to the other guy sternly that “she’s with me”. Just something to think about in more of an introspective self evaluation way
Dating a coworker is such a minefield that it's pretty standard for people to lie about it (because it can get both parties fired). But the same caveat that preaches “never date a coworker” also applies to platonic relationships between professional colleagues. It sounds like maybe you just got too personally involved with someone who you work with and that's always dangerous. People who value their careers always have to put the job ahead of the interpersonal connections they make in the office. Maybe try to be more professional with this colleague and don't get your feelings so wrapped up in it.
When was he diagnosed and in what context? Something must have happened for a psychologist to assess him – sociopaths aren’t the type of person to proactively seek out a diagnosis. They typically don’t know (or care) whether their brain works differently to other people.
If it’s a real diagnosis… You really need to read up on the topic without rose tinted specs. Certain behaviour which looks like one thing (eg love or empathy) can be underpinned by something else (eg control, manipulation). You are not the exception, you won’t ‘change’ the diagnosis with your love. Just please, be realistic. A life with a genuine sociopath is not easy, or terribly rewarding.
I really think you need to get more facts, talk to a doctor and get some straight facts about his disorder. Find out how it affects him, from someone who is not him. Use Google.
Reading what is posted so far is you are weak and submissive. Not sure this can be fixed overnight. Do you want a masculine woman? She doesn't want a weak man. Be a man.
Of course you bring it up. You are really comfortable together. Talk about it. It’s going to drive you nuts if you don’t. It sounds as if he may be catching feelings too. If not, then decide what to do. Don’t just assume he isn’t and run. Talk about it. It could be great.
You have made many positive changes in your life over the past two years while your husband has become increasingly critical and unsupportive, by making inappropriate comments about your gym routine and job prospects, and insisting that you do your wife duties.
His behavior may be due to insecurity or discomfort with the changes in your relationship. He may fear that he is losing you or losing control over his life through your changes. He may be struggling to express his emotions in a healthy way, resorting to passive aggressive comments.
Have an open and honest conversation with your husband about how you're feeling and set clear boundaries and expectations. Consider seeking couples therapy or individual therapy if needed.
You deserve to be with someone who loves and supports you and who is happy to see you succeed and grow as a person.
Get on Tinder yourself to see how many single moms you can catfish. See how she feels about that. If she sees this as an even trade, move on and don't look back.
This isn't classism, but if im paying $100+ for even a simple dinner out these days — im gonna be pissed if some joker is stinking and covered in grease or dirt.
It's disrespectful to the restaurant and the staff that has to clean extra after you, it's disrespectful to everyone else trying to be in nice atmosphere and enjoy an expensive meal out.
Just FYI, the other commenter, u/Ebbie45, is a professional and deals with domestic violence situations on the regular, so I would pay close attention to their advice. Unfortunately, they have a lot of experience. And they are often called upon by other redditors in this sub to chime in about DV issues here. If you check their comment history, you’ll probably find hundreds and hundreds of helpful and informed comments.
I haven’t, at least not in so many words. I am a bit embarrassed about the whole thing and doubting my worth. It’s not my first relationship where I’ve been expected to be a sort of service animal for a man…
The age gap isn't a big issue, lots of couples have 5-7 year age gaps. The bigger issue is she's early 20s and your late 20s, which obviously you realize.
Most people don't want to settle down at 21 but it never hurts to try. If you like her give it a shot.
OP, I'm going to deliver some tough love here: you are failing as a parent right now. You are married to an abuser and your son is terrified. He does not feel safe in your home. That should be unacceptable to you.
You are showing your son what a relationship looks like. Currently, you are demonstrating that it is normal and healthy for there to be bullying in your romantic relationship. Is that what you want to instill? If he was treating a partner how your husband treats you, or being treated how your husband treats you, would you be happy for him or concerned for him? I hope you would be concerned if he were being bullied by his spouse. That is the trajectory you are setting him on currently.
Where are your mama bear instincts? Your son was afraid that your husband would murder his father. That is not a thought that should ever have to cross a child's mind when it comes to their primary caretakers. Do the right thing, even if it's naked. Get your husband away from your young child and show him that violence and anger are NEVER permissible by you in his home.
You have a cold, and getting colds is an unfortunate part of life we have to learn to cope with. If you were laid up after surgery or an ER trip or had Covid & couldn't fend for yourself, that would be one thing. I would be hard-pressed to say that asking a partner to nurse you through a cold when they already had plans is reasonable? Your feelings are valid, but at the same time I think you're being unrealistic.
And not every country in Western Europe has its legal to escape prison.
I wasn't talking about escaping prison I was talking about getting punished by getting put in debt you will never in your life get out of.
The difference between being civil and being Stoic is that one you do out of normalcy, the other you do to make you feel normal. I think only OP will know if they need to respond or not.
Op your an idiot you committed an emotional affair then dumped your boyfriend for a lying cheating scumbag. OP have some self respect stop being a pathetic weak excuse of a woman . He don't love you he loves that he can manipulate and use you your nothing but a ego boost to him and i guarantee he has been lying to his girlfriend and telling you both different things. OP he's a player that's all he is he knows exactly what to say and do and i promise he has other women besides you and gf OP you cheated on your boyfriend and left him and have no remorse OP you need therapy now to find out why your so willing to be with a man who will never leave hid gf and will never love you he will just tell you lies OP you deserve better Please leave this man and go NC
Good advice here overall I have a question though that I think should be addressed
When that other guy swooped in on her did that happen right in front of you? Did the other guy know that you and her were at least together and yet still made a move on her? If that’s the case I think another discussion should be shifted onto why you didn’t defend your territory in a way. Look, I’m a total pacifist and avoid confrontation at all costs but if something like that happened to me I think my natural inclination would be to at least step in the instant the other guy put his arms on her and signal to the other guy sternly that “she’s with me”. Just something to think about in more of an introspective self evaluation way
Dating a coworker is such a minefield that it's pretty standard for people to lie about it (because it can get both parties fired). But the same caveat that preaches “never date a coworker” also applies to platonic relationships between professional colleagues. It sounds like maybe you just got too personally involved with someone who you work with and that's always dangerous. People who value their careers always have to put the job ahead of the interpersonal connections they make in the office. Maybe try to be more professional with this colleague and don't get your feelings so wrapped up in it.
Baffled by how you've ranked your scenarios. I would consider your 'semi-bad case scenario' to be a worst-case scenario too.
So how long until he hits you? That’s the question I’d ask myself
Call a trusted family member or friend, have them there whilst you pack and you leave
If he’s destroyed any of your property you document it, take photos and press charges for criminal damage
I guarantee you if you stay with this guy it won’t end well so please OP just leave now
When was he diagnosed and in what context? Something must have happened for a psychologist to assess him – sociopaths aren’t the type of person to proactively seek out a diagnosis. They typically don’t know (or care) whether their brain works differently to other people.
If it’s a real diagnosis… You really need to read up on the topic without rose tinted specs. Certain behaviour which looks like one thing (eg love or empathy) can be underpinned by something else (eg control, manipulation). You are not the exception, you won’t ‘change’ the diagnosis with your love. Just please, be realistic. A life with a genuine sociopath is not easy, or terribly rewarding.
I really think you need to get more facts, talk to a doctor and get some straight facts about his disorder. Find out how it affects him, from someone who is not him. Use Google.
Yeah yay me, I feel just like a princess. ?
I really wish that more men were as responsible as this post shows you to be. You 100% did the right thing.
Reading what is posted so far is you are weak and submissive. Not sure this can be fixed overnight. Do you want a masculine woman? She doesn't want a weak man. Be a man.
Of course you bring it up. You are really comfortable together. Talk about it. It’s going to drive you nuts if you don’t. It sounds as if he may be catching feelings too. If not, then decide what to do. Don’t just assume he isn’t and run. Talk about it. It could be great.
You have made many positive changes in your life over the past two years while your husband has become increasingly critical and unsupportive, by making inappropriate comments about your gym routine and job prospects, and insisting that you do your wife duties.
His behavior may be due to insecurity or discomfort with the changes in your relationship. He may fear that he is losing you or losing control over his life through your changes. He may be struggling to express his emotions in a healthy way, resorting to passive aggressive comments.
Have an open and honest conversation with your husband about how you're feeling and set clear boundaries and expectations. Consider seeking couples therapy or individual therapy if needed.
You deserve to be with someone who loves and supports you and who is happy to see you succeed and grow as a person.
Get on Tinder yourself to see how many single moms you can catfish. See how she feels about that. If she sees this as an even trade, move on and don't look back.
This isn't classism, but if im paying $100+ for even a simple dinner out these days — im gonna be pissed if some joker is stinking and covered in grease or dirt.
It's disrespectful to the restaurant and the staff that has to clean extra after you, it's disrespectful to everyone else trying to be in nice atmosphere and enjoy an expensive meal out.
Just FYI, the other commenter, u/Ebbie45, is a professional and deals with domestic violence situations on the regular, so I would pay close attention to their advice. Unfortunately, they have a lot of experience. And they are often called upon by other redditors in this sub to chime in about DV issues here. If you check their comment history, you’ll probably find hundreds and hundreds of helpful and informed comments.
I haven’t, at least not in so many words. I am a bit embarrassed about the whole thing and doubting my worth. It’s not my first relationship where I’ve been expected to be a sort of service animal for a man…
The age gap isn't a big issue, lots of couples have 5-7 year age gaps. The bigger issue is she's early 20s and your late 20s, which obviously you realize.
Most people don't want to settle down at 21 but it never hurts to try. If you like her give it a shot.
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OP, I'm going to deliver some tough love here: you are failing as a parent right now. You are married to an abuser and your son is terrified. He does not feel safe in your home. That should be unacceptable to you.
You are showing your son what a relationship looks like. Currently, you are demonstrating that it is normal and healthy for there to be bullying in your romantic relationship. Is that what you want to instill? If he was treating a partner how your husband treats you, or being treated how your husband treats you, would you be happy for him or concerned for him? I hope you would be concerned if he were being bullied by his spouse. That is the trajectory you are setting him on currently.
Where are your mama bear instincts? Your son was afraid that your husband would murder his father. That is not a thought that should ever have to cross a child's mind when it comes to their primary caretakers. Do the right thing, even if it's naked. Get your husband away from your young child and show him that violence and anger are NEVER permissible by you in his home.