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1. Do you normally verbally ask permission every time?

   You may have consented while drunk and she might not have realized how drunk you were.

   If you're bothered just tell her in the future you don't want to have drunk sex anymore.

   Drunk sex isn't automatically “wrong”. My wife and I have drunk sex all the time, sometimes one of us is drunk, sometimes both.

   Just talk to her if you don't want to do it again.

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2. Eh, I see both sides here…. I have done things before and asked that people don't want gifts. One time, for my son's birthday I phrased it “We think your time spent with us is enough of a gift. If you feel compelled to give, we will donate all items or money to “toys for tots””. Basically saying, gift if you want and we will take it to a good place. Interestingly enough, no one brought gifts.

   When I have just said “no gifts or money needed”, a couple people ALWAYS end of bringing something and it's AWKWARD, for both myself and the other people who did not bring gifts. So, I'm with you in that sense. And I don't think it's rude to expect people to accept a boundary. Perhaps you could work on your wording to make it more palatable than “don't come”.

   I also can understand the notion of “some people REALLY like to gift”. BUT, it's confusing because if I'm saying I don't want them and they are insisting because it's “what you want”, and so i need to now be okay with it, isn't that kind of messed up?

   I don't know if it's a hill worth dying on. Perhaps you could work on a different way to word it that your fiancee will be more comfortable with?

   One issue with the things you've presented is the bridal shower. Usually, friends or families throw these for the bride, and I'm not sure that should be something you dictate. It makes you look a little controlling.

   The other thing is…. does she have any requirements for the wedding or things you are willing to compromise other than the wedding itself? The way your post is formatted comes across as though you have made this great sacrifice to have this wedding for her. So, now that you have done so, you get to call the shots. That's just the way it reads, which is probably why you are getting some of the responses against you.

   Overall, I would say just enjoy it. Let go a little bit…. if you don't really care for weddings in the first place but have decided to do it because it's important for your partner, just let go. It's a small part of the rest of your lives together. In the grand scheme, it's super minor. You said you don't care about weddings, so my advice is to do exactly that….care less.

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