Yes I think that the thing her for me is less that I’m bothered about the ex (I don’t think he would go back there) or that he loves me (I think he does actually) and more that I think this indicates really unhealthy thinking? I worry it could lead to him cheating in the future for example
Under the influence cannot be trusted. And lucky you for throwing a party and nothing happening. Unfortunately life doesn't play fair. You can't control other people.
If his family are taking her side over his already, he is already isolated; the only question is to what degree he wants to hang around and be bullied for it.
So you openly cheated on your boyfriend, and so did she on hers, right infront of them, and you are wondering what to do? You cut them off, you stop doing anything with people in relationships like a normal person, and you work on fixing yourself so you don't wreck other relationships.
Floated a prenup to see what the response was. Prenup kind of means planning to fail in her opinion. She wasn't totally against it but wasn't for it.
All you can do is share how it makes you feel, see how she responds and then decide if you believe you are compatible
Yes I think that the thing her for me is less that I’m bothered about the ex (I don’t think he would go back there) or that he loves me (I think he does actually) and more that I think this indicates really unhealthy thinking? I worry it could lead to him cheating in the future for example
Under the influence cannot be trusted. And lucky you for throwing a party and nothing happening. Unfortunately life doesn't play fair. You can't control other people.
If his family are taking her side over his already, he is already isolated; the only question is to what degree he wants to hang around and be bullied for it.
Just say what you said here.
So you openly cheated on your boyfriend, and so did she on hers, right infront of them, and you are wondering what to do? You cut them off, you stop doing anything with people in relationships like a normal person, and you work on fixing yourself so you don't wreck other relationships.