How long have y’all been dating? How long has he had this aversion to hair on your armpits? And define “hairy”. Regardless, that’s the way he is I suppose, and there’s really nothing you can to do change that.
You are both right to respect each other’s boundaries, but sometimes there is no compromise.
I wouldn’t feel comfortable or sexy if I knew my partner was doing something he didn’t like. Why would you want him to? You said you don’t get much out of it anyway. And what will that ultimately do for the problem of him being turn off by armpit hair.
Does he try to satisfy other ways you when y’all have sex?
You either shave to be palatable for your bf’s sexual preferences if you want to have sex, or you don’t.
I don’t know if this is worth breaking up over, but you accept this is the way things are or you break up. Sexual compatibility is fundamental to most healthy and happy relationships.
What do your parents think? Have you told them?
How long have y’all been dating? How long has he had this aversion to hair on your armpits? And define “hairy”. Regardless, that’s the way he is I suppose, and there’s really nothing you can to do change that.
You are both right to respect each other’s boundaries, but sometimes there is no compromise.
I wouldn’t feel comfortable or sexy if I knew my partner was doing something he didn’t like. Why would you want him to? You said you don’t get much out of it anyway. And what will that ultimately do for the problem of him being turn off by armpit hair.
Does he try to satisfy other ways you when y’all have sex?
You either shave to be palatable for your bf’s sexual preferences if you want to have sex, or you don’t.
I don’t know if this is worth breaking up over, but you accept this is the way things are or you break up. Sexual compatibility is fundamental to most healthy and happy relationships.