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I always had “the one” that I wondered about. We were sweethearts at a young age and broke up and I thought of him often. We tried again in our early twenties – it was great at first, and then the same issues arose and I ended things. But for some reason I still was like “what if” and he contacted me and said all the right things, how it was gonna be perfect and different so we tried again in our mid twenties. Third time was a charm and I saw it for what it was, he was just an idiot, same issues came up after the romance period and we broke up.
Honestly, in our heads I think we romanticise these “lost loves” and imagine it’s going to be perfect. But the reality is, it’s not.
In your case, the guy was happy enough to tell you to your face he didn’t want to marry you. Imagine choosing to inflict that kind of hurt on the person you’re seeing. He didn’t want to marry you, and he didn’t mince his words when asked.
Now he is married with kids.
So two things. A) You need to accept he wasn’t that into you, he plainly said he didn’t want to marry you. B) He’s married with kids and very unlikely to leave them to be with the girl he didn’t even want to marry in the first place.
My advice – and you already know this OP – delete him from everywhere. Don’t let yourself keep looking at his social media’s. Don’t forget people only post the best version of themselves on social media so not only are you constantly looking at his life, you’re looking at the glossy “picture perfect” version he posts.
My other advice is throw your everything at your husband and family to make that work. If you’re not happy with your husband perhaps you need to make a plan to leave.
Either way. You need to stop chasing unicorns, they don’t exist.
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You need to put a very firm boundary on place with him that going forward you won't ever tolerate him teasing you with these noises. Explain to him that he'll get a few warnings, but if he continues then you'll have to end the relationship.
So he was using you for sex and you where using him for financial aid. Now your looking for validation from the internet that you where victimized? TBTAH.
I'm petty, so I would screen shot the dm & send it out to my other friends & make sure they keep a close eye on her since she's so shady. Then never talk to her again.
WTF?! It is one think to have this dream – we all had some really strange dreams. But he was so eager to talk to you. That is just creepy. He knew exactly that it was inappropiate otherwise he would have told his wife or you in front of your fiance.
I don’t know if i would tell my mother just to gave her the chance to decide for herself if she want finally get free of him.
And i would try not to be alone with him. He could just had zip up about this dream, like we all do about crazy shit. But he overshared. Either he likes to shock and provoke or he knows no bounderies – or he wanted a reaction of you. Overall just creepy.
I was kind of like your son, althought that only lasted till like 22-23 birthday or so. It's really easy to fall into this kind of behavior these days. Modern women require much more from men and won't accept a lazy guy for a boyfriend most of the time.
I don't think there's anything you can do. If anything, your pressure can only make it worse. It's like with addiction, he has to come to the conclusion that he wants to change his life himself. If he doesn't, just let him be, he's an adult. Some people don't really feel the need to be in a real relationship. It's better that way than to force yourself and be unhappy.
As someone in an interracial marriage and is Indian as well. I think it is important to talk about how you will raise your kids, with what cultural aspects, traditions, etc. and you should be open minded.
We are raising them both as Hindu and Christian and when they are old enough, they can decide.
I also recommend recognizing that you need to embrace his culture as much as he embraces yours. Like your entire identity should turn white and Juan entire identity shouldn’t turn Indian.
And the last one, understand that he won’t do/understand all the Indian norms and that is okay. As long as he respects you, then it is okay.
She said she’s on board with him joining friends and family for travel. But he’s disappointed because he envisioned traveling with her and their future children. He’s hardly deprived. He needs thinks exactly how he dreamed of.
I always had “the one” that I wondered about. We were sweethearts at a young age and broke up and I thought of him often. We tried again in our early twenties – it was great at first, and then the same issues arose and I ended things. But for some reason I still was like “what if” and he contacted me and said all the right things, how it was gonna be perfect and different so we tried again in our mid twenties. Third time was a charm and I saw it for what it was, he was just an idiot, same issues came up after the romance period and we broke up.
Honestly, in our heads I think we romanticise these “lost loves” and imagine it’s going to be perfect. But the reality is, it’s not.
In your case, the guy was happy enough to tell you to your face he didn’t want to marry you. Imagine choosing to inflict that kind of hurt on the person you’re seeing. He didn’t want to marry you, and he didn’t mince his words when asked.
Now he is married with kids.
So two things. A) You need to accept he wasn’t that into you, he plainly said he didn’t want to marry you. B) He’s married with kids and very unlikely to leave them to be with the girl he didn’t even want to marry in the first place.
My advice – and you already know this OP – delete him from everywhere. Don’t let yourself keep looking at his social media’s. Don’t forget people only post the best version of themselves on social media so not only are you constantly looking at his life, you’re looking at the glossy “picture perfect” version he posts.
My other advice is throw your everything at your husband and family to make that work. If you’re not happy with your husband perhaps you need to make a plan to leave.
Either way. You need to stop chasing unicorns, they don’t exist.
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You need to put a very firm boundary on place with him that going forward you won't ever tolerate him teasing you with these noises. Explain to him that he'll get a few warnings, but if he continues then you'll have to end the relationship.
Excuse me??
Why are you with this human turd?
So he was using you for sex and you where using him for financial aid. Now your looking for validation from the internet that you where victimized? TBTAH.
I'm petty, so I would screen shot the dm & send it out to my other friends & make sure they keep a close eye on her since she's so shady. Then never talk to her again.
Sometimes I come to this sub and the advice is ridiculous.
Pleasantly surprised how this one went.
100% on point.
WTF?! It is one think to have this dream – we all had some really strange dreams. But he was so eager to talk to you. That is just creepy. He knew exactly that it was inappropiate otherwise he would have told his wife or you in front of your fiance.
I don’t know if i would tell my mother just to gave her the chance to decide for herself if she want finally get free of him.
And i would try not to be alone with him. He could just had zip up about this dream, like we all do about crazy shit. But he overshared. Either he likes to shock and provoke or he knows no bounderies – or he wanted a reaction of you. Overall just creepy.
I would leave you for going through the laptop and also having an opinion on my sexual past before you. 0/10 partner, id never trust you again.
Is there one logical sensical answer though?
I was kind of like your son, althought that only lasted till like 22-23 birthday or so. It's really easy to fall into this kind of behavior these days. Modern women require much more from men and won't accept a lazy guy for a boyfriend most of the time.
I don't think there's anything you can do. If anything, your pressure can only make it worse. It's like with addiction, he has to come to the conclusion that he wants to change his life himself. If he doesn't, just let him be, he's an adult. Some people don't really feel the need to be in a real relationship. It's better that way than to force yourself and be unhappy.
As someone in an interracial marriage and is Indian as well. I think it is important to talk about how you will raise your kids, with what cultural aspects, traditions, etc. and you should be open minded.
We are raising them both as Hindu and Christian and when they are old enough, they can decide.
I also recommend recognizing that you need to embrace his culture as much as he embraces yours. Like your entire identity should turn white and Juan entire identity shouldn’t turn Indian.
And the last one, understand that he won’t do/understand all the Indian norms and that is okay. As long as he respects you, then it is okay.
because it is a trauma that you can compare to those of a family of a missing person.
Listen to your friend who is smart and looking out for you. Sorry, that's not what you want to hear.
Yup.
She said she’s on board with him joining friends and family for travel. But he’s disappointed because he envisioned traveling with her and their future children. He’s hardly deprived. He needs thinks exactly how he dreamed of.
True, but those women don't lie about it being their first time.
yup, he’s not into you at all
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He doesn't pay rent…he doesn't pay rent…he doesn't pay rent
He, either, needs to pony up half the rent, or he needs to needs to spend the equal amount in groceries and utilities.
“You're leaving a toxic situation because they've proven they will crush the life out of you if it will make them a teensy bit more comfortable.”
**It may have come as a surprise to her to have even her own mother chime in with him and his kin.
Who should have had her daughters back and stood by her even more than any of that internally ugly bunch of people!**
“If anything, THEY ruined a wedding over a dress.”
Over their dead grandchilds dress as to that!**
You sure like to use the word lol
Old girl was eating pizza with extra sausage.
Nope, not crazy. She cheated.
Should have told her to ask her mother to finance her way home.