1) I owned a coffee shop/restaurant and your customers want happy nice people to serve them coffee in the morning even if they are grumpy. It's literally called a customer service voice for a reason. Most of my day was spent being perky and nice to people.
2) I got hit on more than I ever did my entire life working behind that counter by men younger all the way up to three times my age because I was nice to them. Including even after I was married and dudes still tried to slip into my businesses DMs. I have no illusions as to where I fall on the scale I'm a solid 6 maybe 7 on a really good day. It's literally just being nice and remembering things about people.
3) I bounced a 70 year old customer after he made my 18 year old employee feel uncomfortable because he gave her a note with his number on it. He wrote that she was the nicest girl he had met in a while. Just so you know, my opinion of you is quite similar to my opinion of him. 4) if my husband told me he tried to exchanged numbers with a woman he had no personal connection to other than meeting in a coffee shop divorce. Idk if you are being dense or just intentionally stupid but no one here has any illusions that you just wanted a new friend for your wife.
Yeah big IF. I love how faithfulness to men has to have a condition.
I don't think friends are overrated
1) I owned a coffee shop/restaurant and your customers want happy nice people to serve them coffee in the morning even if they are grumpy. It's literally called a customer service voice for a reason. Most of my day was spent being perky and nice to people.
2) I got hit on more than I ever did my entire life working behind that counter by men younger all the way up to three times my age because I was nice to them. Including even after I was married and dudes still tried to slip into my businesses DMs. I have no illusions as to where I fall on the scale I'm a solid 6 maybe 7 on a really good day. It's literally just being nice and remembering things about people.
3) I bounced a 70 year old customer after he made my 18 year old employee feel uncomfortable because he gave her a note with his number on it. He wrote that she was the nicest girl he had met in a while. Just so you know, my opinion of you is quite similar to my opinion of him. 4) if my husband told me he tried to exchanged numbers with a woman he had no personal connection to other than meeting in a coffee shop divorce. Idk if you are being dense or just intentionally stupid but no one here has any illusions that you just wanted a new friend for your wife.
I mean, women cheat too.
I'd advice you against drinking since you can't control yourself under the influence