We married in February after only dating for a few months and this year has been amazing!!
Except for the fact that he is apparently involved with someone else. It takes time to get to really know someone. Maybe next time slow down and enjoy the ride of getting to know someone and avoid having to say “I just feel all alone and it’s a horrible feeling.”
Fundamental value shifts from Open, to Swinger, to Infidelity…none of which were your desires. In fact, those shifts crossed your hard boundaries. Trust was broken.
You still want this to work…but there are MANY signs that there is nothing to save.
Dump him.
We married in February after only dating for a few months and this year has been amazing!!
Except for the fact that he is apparently involved with someone else. It takes time to get to really know someone. Maybe next time slow down and enjoy the ride of getting to know someone and avoid having to say “I just feel all alone and it’s a horrible feeling.”
Fundamental value shifts from Open, to Swinger, to Infidelity…none of which were your desires. In fact, those shifts crossed your hard boundaries. Trust was broken.
You still want this to work…but there are MANY signs that there is nothing to save.
“I’ve never ever been the jealous type” well you are now ??♀️