This is one of those lessons in life you learn only by going through it. Make a decision and take what comes with it. It’s your life. And we are no psychics ??♀️
He's banking on me kicking in some of the down payment, and wants me to pay half the bi-weekly payments, which would be more than our rent at this point.
He is welcome to continue banking on that in his alternate universe. Don't put yourself in debt for his sake in this one because if he is as bad with money as you say he is, you will be paying more than half.
In this entire post I didn't see a “but she's a good person” or “she's not like this all the time” or even a “we've got so much history.” You didn't give a single reason why you're with her or a good excuse why you went back to her.
What that says to me personally is that any redeeming qualities she may have had got lost in the mountain of red flags and now you can't associate her with whatever made you fall in love with her anymore.
With that and your trust being irreparably broken, you don't have a relationship. You're grasping at straws to not be alone. And being with this girl is not better than being alone. You can't fix her. You can't save her. You can't help her. She doesn't want help or affection, she wants a doormat.
If you need permission to drop her, granted. Please. Do yourself a favor.
What kind of advice do you want? He’s useless in the kitchen and doesn’t seem to be improving. His excuses are pathetic.
Regardless of whether she keeps this baby, I hope she divorces you. Disgusting
This is one of those lessons in life you learn only by going through it. Make a decision and take what comes with it. It’s your life. And we are no psychics ??♀️
He's banking on me kicking in some of the down payment, and wants me to pay half the bi-weekly payments, which would be more than our rent at this point.
He is welcome to continue banking on that in his alternate universe. Don't put yourself in debt for his sake in this one because if he is as bad with money as you say he is, you will be paying more than half.
Same. Fuck them!
Probably? Dude really? If this kind of child like game playing is a pattern for her then obviously you'd be better off alone.
In this entire post I didn't see a “but she's a good person” or “she's not like this all the time” or even a “we've got so much history.” You didn't give a single reason why you're with her or a good excuse why you went back to her.
What that says to me personally is that any redeeming qualities she may have had got lost in the mountain of red flags and now you can't associate her with whatever made you fall in love with her anymore.
With that and your trust being irreparably broken, you don't have a relationship. You're grasping at straws to not be alone. And being with this girl is not better than being alone. You can't fix her. You can't save her. You can't help her. She doesn't want help or affection, she wants a doormat.
If you need permission to drop her, granted. Please. Do yourself a favor.