He gave you a definitive boundary. You clearly weren’t okay with the boundary and he responded accordingly. He’s not interested in sharing you with foot pervs on the interwebz. He felt you cared so little for him by not respecting the sanctity of your relationship to be monogamous with him. It’s your body your choice of course but that’s a two way street. If he was using his body to, let’s say, fuck the neighbor, I’m sure you wouldn’t be real set on marriage either.
Neither would I. Both could be in college still when they met, and idk about you but I was around a ton of freshmen in my senior year. Perfectly natural to hang out with them, which can lead to dating. Reddit absolutely loves to say “ew, they're 18”, but ffs, they're adults too. Grow up.
At 22-23 I would have and did date 18-19 year olds, because they were a huge chunk of my social circle. At 25 I wouldn't have, because I'd moved past that stage. At 32 I wouldn't dream of dating anyone 18-23.
This exactly!!! “There is nothing metaphysical” about it. If OP has ever awakened with an erection when alone in bed, this could have happened to his fiancé. He wants to know how to get over it? If it’s that difficult, he should see a therapist, but it honestly sounds like he’s looking for things to get worked up about.
A piece of shit?
He gave you a definitive boundary. You clearly weren’t okay with the boundary and he responded accordingly. He’s not interested in sharing you with foot pervs on the interwebz. He felt you cared so little for him by not respecting the sanctity of your relationship to be monogamous with him. It’s your body your choice of course but that’s a two way street. If he was using his body to, let’s say, fuck the neighbor, I’m sure you wouldn’t be real set on marriage either.
Did you seek medical help after this episode? If not, you need to.
Neither would I. Both could be in college still when they met, and idk about you but I was around a ton of freshmen in my senior year. Perfectly natural to hang out with them, which can lead to dating. Reddit absolutely loves to say “ew, they're 18”, but ffs, they're adults too. Grow up.
At 22-23 I would have and did date 18-19 year olds, because they were a huge chunk of my social circle. At 25 I wouldn't have, because I'd moved past that stage. At 32 I wouldn't dream of dating anyone 18-23.
This exactly!!! “There is nothing metaphysical” about it. If OP has ever awakened with an erection when alone in bed, this could have happened to his fiancé. He wants to know how to get over it? If it’s that difficult, he should see a therapist, but it honestly sounds like he’s looking for things to get worked up about.
The real shit is outside the door.