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1. I would look into compassion fatigue and some resources to help. What you’re dealing with sounds very similar, and things get sticky when the lines between lover and caretaker are blurred.

   I am in a similar situation, so the more I think about this the more it tangles my brain, but what I can say for sure is that your needs are 1000% valid and deserve to be fulfilled. You do not exist solely to care for another human. You are not a shitty boyfriend or selfish person for having needs.

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2. What can this woman be missing out on? This is all speculation, but who are you to say she just wants to “be railed and emotionally dragged through the mud”? This woman COULD be missing out on feeling a sense of self that could only come by going through apart of your adult life being single. Ever thought of that? Also, these people are grown AF why play toxic games? The person wants out of the marriage. Let them go. If they aren’t willing to put effort in to keep a marriage, then why would you? Let it go.

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3. Sounds like you need to make friends with people who like to stay in.

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4. He’s given me suggestions, I just hate confrontation. Stepdad also got really upset with me when I hinted to bf’s mom what might be going on one time, so I know sd will be pissed at confrontation too

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5. Well you can ask if you can quickly wave a hello to her during said call. His reaction should tell you whether your feelings are valid.

   Does she know about you would be my first question.

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6. The people who are dismissing the wife's feelings and physiological responses to stress as manipulation are serving the patriarchy.

   The top comment is misogynistic as fuck, advising OP to assume a paternalistic role and have her wife sit with her discomfort.

   Let me say this: the wife is DEEPLY uncomfortable with something in her life. Being scolded probably isn't going to resolve that.

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