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Hi person who don’t want kids
So you're being verbally and emotionally abused and gaslit to believe their abusiveness is your fault.
As needs to be said on every reddit post like this; let's say it together:
People don't change
You can't make them change
Attempting to save them will just make it worse
I'm sorry you've been going through this. I would seriously take a step back and reevaluate. Best of luck.
The problem is, you are framing it as the woman being in the wrong rather than the guy. That's a big no-no on this sub for some people.
Bet you $10 if you swapped the genders around this argument would never have come up in the first place 🙂
Break up. You’re not compatible. No reason to continue
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Underlying, maybe undiagnosed health issues…. diabetes can have similar effects on sex life. I know, happened to my husband. His diabetes caused ED, and that embarrassed him so we just stopped having a sex life. Then we finally talked about it just before I was going to leave. Now it's 7 years later, his diabetes is under control and we have a much more satisfying sex life.
It's going to take a while to fully get over her, don't be naked on yourself if it takes longer.
It's a bit like a grieving process, as soon as you fully cut her out of your life, you can start the recovery.
It will help if you talk to friends or family about it, but make sure to block/delete every number and social of her. Be sure to throw/put away out pictures of things that will heavily remind you of her
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The likelihood of him stopping simply because you ask him to is very low. What will likely happen is that he will continue to sneak and do it in order not to hurt your feelings or make you angry. If this is a deal breaker for you, you need to walk away. If you think that you can find a way to compromise, then you may be able to work through it. Only you can decide what feels right to you.
It’s okay that you don’t feel the same way. It will be naked but if you really feel this way, you need to be honest with him and yourself. You can’t force a relationship that isn’t there.
It’s also a little concerning to me that you’ve been together for only four months and have already gone on two trips together that he fully paid for. I’m not sure what kind of trips, but people who are overly nice like that in the beginning of relationships could be love bombing you. Maybe even just doing this to make you feel you can’t leave and have to stay. This kind of grand gesture is something you do for someone longer than four months of dating.
Tell your mom show her the post.
Going by yourself would give you the opportunity to clear your head and decide some things without him present. (Like why the everloving fuck you gave up your high-paying job for that man child.) It sounds like you're already detaching mentally and emotionally from him, with some distance, you can hopefully set your life back on track.
It's always been an issue after we were intimate
Yeah she sounds fucking jealous too
While I agree with you there's still this huge mindfuck with americans whining yOuRe sExUaLiZiNg eVeRyThInG wHaAa and then being like wear layers because one of you might try to fuck each other for no reason.
Yea, my friend can’t tell if he’s serious about it.
He wants casual. Pretty sure that’s what he meant.
Considering how our last conversation went.
What company would put opposite sex coworkers in the same room? Every work trip I’ve had it’s been same sexes occupying a room.
It’s funny NOW but I totally tried using the fact I’m a lesbian to get my own room. Like companies don’t was opposite sexes in a room because of perceived improprieties so I really was like maybe I could wing this.
My MGR knew I was full of shit and laughed at me. The coworker I was going with was straight with a dyke mom and my friend at the time. Also I was married. They knew NOTHING was gonna happened and that I may be a goof ball but I’m 100000% respectful and not a creeper.
My managers response “nah ima need you to share that room with X…lord knows she’ll keep you in check because I don’t wanna have to explain a cocaine and stripper party to corporate because you were left unattended”
Retail sucks but that job was amazing. I’m still friends with those coworkers.
Every time we fought I was frustrated and didn't know how to express my feelings. I want to run away from him because I don't see us solving our problems. I know that’s been my fault and now he’s been hurt by me saying that all the time
What exactly did you think would happen differently if you told her before she found out?
Just tell him, “I don't think we are a good fit. I wish you the best.” Then block him. Feel sad for a bit. Plan a date night for yourself. Get some good food or make some good food. Enjoy not having to deal with a shitty guy. If you feel stressed, exercise. Talk to friends/family. You'll be ok. The sooner you cut contact, the better.
I was 19 when I met my, now husband, he was 33. We’ve been together for 13 years, married for 9, we have 3 awesome kids. We have our ups and downs, like everyone. We are best friends, and still so in love with each other.
And if she still doesn’t include me? Should I tell her I don’t like it and just walk away because I see she’s not serious about me or what?
This is something major to lie about. I would break up with someone who liked to me like this
Tbh he should have disclosed you’re allowed your preferences. There was no clear communication I would maintain a friendship but a relationship built on shaky ground is doomed to fail
OP. You need to have a 'come to jesus' talk with him. Tell him this isn't working and why. If you want to give him a chance to work on it, fine, but it's WORK. This is his default state. If this relationship is making you depressed you need something to change.
How big and douchey of a gym bro was he?
Why is your kid calling someone he's known for 2 months dad? He shouldn't even know this guy yet.
Asked why she never told me, and she said she was afraid I’d think of her differently…
So first get your wife a dictionary.
She is ashamed and regrets what she did, even if it’s only because of what she thought your reaction would be.
So how did you find the videos.
If she didn’t tell you beforehand, why now, or did you stumble across them or did someone else send them to you. The how of you finding out is important.
Either way she needs to explain herself, porn isn’t like having lots of partners and experimenting, this is a PERMANENT DIGITAL RECORD which as you say you can’t talk to anyone about as most will just want to find the videos. Which means the majority of your relationship (from the moment she said you to your proposal) has been based on a lie.
The fact she is still in contact with these people is a massive red flag.
And your jealousy over what she told you she didn’t want to do, yet you now know had lots of fun doing is salt in the wound of this entire thing.
If you decide to continue with this relationship the first thing she does is cuts all contact with these people.
Second thing is she tells you the truth of it all “experimenting in college” is a fucking Bs excuse – the majority of people experiment, a very small percentage do porn.
Third is that she tells you of any other videos and experiments are out there to surprise you.
Forth she explains why she told you no – normally a no is a no and that’s it – but she lost the privilege of that because she lied to you. So she has to tell you exactly why she didn’t want to do those thing with you.
Then after hearing all of this especially point 2 and 3 you reevaluate your relationship.
Questions you need to ask yourself
What is the chances that someone you know will find these videos? Is your wife recognisable in them? What is the possible reaction and fallout from this? And is your love, which is based on a lie, enough to cope with everything?
And if the answer to the last one isn’t a resounding yes, then divorce.
And when you divorce her, if she doesn’t agree to it, then you tell everyone.
I bet you none of her family or friends (bar the guys she fucked for the videos) know, and as horrible as it sounds to tell them because of what their reaction would be, it is the consequences of her actions (not telling you prior to being married) And they deserve to know the truth about the divorce.
if my wife got home with pink buzzcut and it suits her and it makes her more confident and give boost to our sex life then yes i won't have problem with it.
if it doesnt suit her, i can't hide my feelings and admittedly we on-line in the world with other ppl. we have friends who'll probably ask, “is she ok?” cos she's never got that kind of haircut before. then it'll affect me as well cos people probably will have a perception that i'm a bad partner if she suddenly pick that hairstyle. “is she stressed?”
if you had buzzcut before and it suits you then go for it, if it's your first time then better discuss it first or you can photoshop it first and show him.
Are you a doctor