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During a study break the day before a major exam is not the time to bring up a potential prenup, especially if you’re not even engaged. Read the room, OP.
I understand. It does concern that at some point in the future when I something significant happens in my life like a job promotion or winning first in one of my competitive hobbies she won't be there. I am definitely there for all her accomplishments in life.
It all depends on the people. It doesn't seem it will suit you very well, and there's no need to pretend to like something you don't like. But if you can find a way to be comfortable with the arrangement, he won't likely leave you.
If he supports you in your dreams and understands then it’s a right fit. If he doesn’t then it’s not a right fit. This is the time to find out. Don’t give up on your dreams. Find a partner who supports you instead.
talk to your wife, tell her to flip this situation. ask her if it was you hanging out with new friends and refusing to introduce her to them would that be alright? if she honest the answer will be no it wouldn’t.
if ben actually did refuse to meet you then you really do have a problem. the only reason i can see he would refused is if something was going on between them tbh.
i suspect the lack of respect your wife is showing also shows she’s very into him. i mean i wouldn’t put my marriage in danger for a friend i had only known for a few months unless i felt something for them. ?♀️
THIS! I am 24 yo and I would be very disappointed at any friend of my age dating a 18yo. I actually had issues with a friend a few years ago because she was 22 and dating a 18yo and I didn't agree with the relationship. The age gap wasn't that big, but the kid was still in high school and even then I found it weird.
That’s what he told me. He told me exactly that the next day when he’s said sorry etc. but he said that if I can’t respect his needs for space now why would he want to put him self in a situation of living together. But the way he dealt with the conflict and the way he spoke is not ok. Lots of issues . Not sure if easier to just throw in the towel at this point
Well clearly I need his location, if he is going to a strip club and was gunna play it like he wasn’t there. Also we have it technically for emergencies, which Im not afraid to admit, it is something that makes me feel more comfortable in our relationship.
It’s okay to get rejected. Take it and learn from it. I agree that you’re approach was a little … awkward … at best, so don’t ignore her when you see her again. Just act like it didn’t happen. That’s the best way to avoid awkwardness, and she’ll feel a little awkward. Just act like you did before this happened without bringing it up. If she becomes interested in coffee with you, she’ll approach it. She knows you’re interested in her now.
Sorry to say, but as much as it hurts you, I don't think you really can ask her to set a boundary with other people she loves. Sounds like she already lost your dad, probably had some loneliness from it, and asking her to potentially damage her still existing important relationships is too big of an ask. She's defending you when they malign you, and that will have to be enough.
I'm glad you have found a position that works for you, and hopefully it'll get you the resources to seek the medical testing/treatment recommended. Good luck.
I know how you're feeling and it's not a good feeling BUT when he decided to masturbate instead of waking you for sex… he was not trying to offend you or insult you. I'm sure his thoughts were that he needed to get off to sleep and he didn't want to actually put in the work for sex OR you were sleeping so well that he couldn't bother waking you. He may not have done it RIGHT NEXT TO YOU but instead did it in the bathroom with the sock and then dropped the sock before climbing into bed.
Either way, if it's weighing on you this much, bring it up to him and ask him why he didn't wake you for sex. I'm sure it has nothing to do with you but more to do with he was tired and couldn't sleep so he wanked it so he could fall asleep.
Shouldn’t the babysitter travel with your partner to, you know, help with the baby? You’re a grown man capable of doing household chores without the babysitter. The bigger question here is what have you done to make your partner not trust you?
It seems like if she became pregnant, SHE would be the one with some explaining to do.
It's tempting to say, next time she has a “scare”, to question her about cheating, since that's almost the only possible way for her to get pregnant. “If you're pregnant, I'll need to see a DNA test”, perhaps.
It would either fix the problem or make it worse, I'm not sure.
During a study break the day before a major exam is not the time to bring up a potential prenup, especially if you’re not even engaged. Read the room, OP.
Reading OP's posts and comments history, man, hers is a misery waiting to happen.
I understand. It does concern that at some point in the future when I something significant happens in my life like a job promotion or winning first in one of my competitive hobbies she won't be there. I am definitely there for all her accomplishments in life.
It all depends on the people. It doesn't seem it will suit you very well, and there's no need to pretend to like something you don't like. But if you can find a way to be comfortable with the arrangement, he won't likely leave you.
I agree with this. Also this level of anxiety just annoys the people around you after awhile.
Why would you tell him that seriously ?
If he supports you in your dreams and understands then it’s a right fit. If he doesn’t then it’s not a right fit. This is the time to find out. Don’t give up on your dreams. Find a partner who supports you instead.
nothing you said to him was out of line
Truly laughable, honestly. It's the person who you're speaking to who decides what's put of line for him. Not a third party who read a post on reddit
If he thought of her comments as out of line, then they were out of line
I am addressing this part of the parent comment
As a married man, it's always best to ask your wife before leaving your sperm anywhere isn't on/in her.
Why would this ever be an expectation??
Happy birthday…you deserve better
Simply cut all contact and start fresh dont feel shame as there was nothing to feel shame from your mum is the disgusting one dating a pedo
Oh no?
I've always wanted to be a Mum and I hate the thought of killing my first child
This little babies life is in my hands, it's up to me if I kill it or not.
She equates aborting to killing a baby. Twice.
talk to your wife, tell her to flip this situation. ask her if it was you hanging out with new friends and refusing to introduce her to them would that be alright? if she honest the answer will be no it wouldn’t.
if ben actually did refuse to meet you then you really do have a problem. the only reason i can see he would refused is if something was going on between them tbh.
i suspect the lack of respect your wife is showing also shows she’s very into him. i mean i wouldn’t put my marriage in danger for a friend i had only known for a few months unless i felt something for them. ?♀️
4 step guide to securing a woman and shaking the ick.
Step 1. Get off tinder. Step 2. Go to the gym. Step 3. Talk to one girl (minimum) on every visit. Step 4. Repeat steps 2&3 until desired outcome
We have tried counseling and I am 100% transparent with her on any and all interactions with my ex. Any other suggestions?
So how is she even able to intrude? How does she know about this LDR girlfriend
THIS! I am 24 yo and I would be very disappointed at any friend of my age dating a 18yo. I actually had issues with a friend a few years ago because she was 22 and dating a 18yo and I didn't agree with the relationship. The age gap wasn't that big, but the kid was still in high school and even then I found it weird.
If you’re in the UK this is illegal and you can report to the police. I’d be contacting Reddit admin and getting his account suspended too
That’s what he told me. He told me exactly that the next day when he’s said sorry etc. but he said that if I can’t respect his needs for space now why would he want to put him self in a situation of living together. But the way he dealt with the conflict and the way he spoke is not ok. Lots of issues . Not sure if easier to just throw in the towel at this point
Get him to send sexy pics of you back to her saying “ Nah, got way better at home”
Not really sure if the boundary needs to be set or if I need to be done. To old to keep forgiving..
Well clearly I need his location, if he is going to a strip club and was gunna play it like he wasn’t there. Also we have it technically for emergencies, which Im not afraid to admit, it is something that makes me feel more comfortable in our relationship.
You're going through a divorce and worried about phones?
You already said it my friend
It’s okay to get rejected. Take it and learn from it. I agree that you’re approach was a little … awkward … at best, so don’t ignore her when you see her again. Just act like it didn’t happen. That’s the best way to avoid awkwardness, and she’ll feel a little awkward. Just act like you did before this happened without bringing it up. If she becomes interested in coffee with you, she’ll approach it. She knows you’re interested in her now.
Sorry to say, but as much as it hurts you, I don't think you really can ask her to set a boundary with other people she loves. Sounds like she already lost your dad, probably had some loneliness from it, and asking her to potentially damage her still existing important relationships is too big of an ask. She's defending you when they malign you, and that will have to be enough.
I'm glad you have found a position that works for you, and hopefully it'll get you the resources to seek the medical testing/treatment recommended. Good luck.
“My dad told me he had a sex dream about me.”
I know how you're feeling and it's not a good feeling BUT when he decided to masturbate instead of waking you for sex… he was not trying to offend you or insult you. I'm sure his thoughts were that he needed to get off to sleep and he didn't want to actually put in the work for sex OR you were sleeping so well that he couldn't bother waking you. He may not have done it RIGHT NEXT TO YOU but instead did it in the bathroom with the sock and then dropped the sock before climbing into bed.
Either way, if it's weighing on you this much, bring it up to him and ask him why he didn't wake you for sex. I'm sure it has nothing to do with you but more to do with he was tired and couldn't sleep so he wanked it so he could fall asleep.
Okay, soo…you‘re autistic? Her boyfriend is not or did I just miss something….
Shouldn’t the babysitter travel with your partner to, you know, help with the baby? You’re a grown man capable of doing household chores without the babysitter. The bigger question here is what have you done to make your partner not trust you?
You deserve someone who believes in you and the good you are doing. Keep on your path, but he doesn't belong there.
Your 19. Leave him.
It seems like if she became pregnant, SHE would be the one with some explaining to do.
It's tempting to say, next time she has a “scare”, to question her about cheating, since that's almost the only possible way for her to get pregnant. “If you're pregnant, I'll need to see a DNA test”, perhaps.
It would either fix the problem or make it worse, I'm not sure.
Honestly if it were me, I’d start the process of IVF embryos with a sperm donor while simultaneously starting divorce proceedings
You’ve been together 12 years, you’re 38. He knows what you want, you’ve made that perfectly clear.
He’s never going to be ready. Not with you anyways.
Honestly if it were me, I’d start the process of IVF embryos with a sperm donor while simultaneously starting divorce proceedings
You’ve been together 12 years, you’re 38. He knows what you want, you’ve made that perfectly clear.
He’s never going to be ready. Not with you anyways.