He is insulting other people to defend how he feels. As an example, as soon as I got my own place, I invited my bf to move in. He spent one or two nights a week at my place for about 2 months, then we decided it was working well, and he wanted to move in full time. We had been dating for over 3 years, but he was excited to move in with me.
Does this make my bf a pussy? Or does he just enjoy spending time with me and having easy access to quality time now that we are in the same house?
Your bf is being immature, but I don't have advice, just a comparison.
Let her continue to make mistakes. Be there to pick up the pieces. If you give her any advice at all, tell her to talk to a counselor about this, who will do a much better job than you ever could.
He is insulting other people to defend how he feels. As an example, as soon as I got my own place, I invited my bf to move in. He spent one or two nights a week at my place for about 2 months, then we decided it was working well, and he wanted to move in full time. We had been dating for over 3 years, but he was excited to move in with me.
Does this make my bf a pussy? Or does he just enjoy spending time with me and having easy access to quality time now that we are in the same house?
Your bf is being immature, but I don't have advice, just a comparison.
I'm a lot more concerned about the psychological damage that's being afflicted by them onto their children.
Don't give her any advice at all.
Let her continue to make mistakes. Be there to pick up the pieces. If you give her any advice at all, tell her to talk to a counselor about this, who will do a much better job than you ever could.