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1. Hey, I work with kids. I feel like a lot of people in here heard once on-line that you should never make a big deal out of your kids falling and are parroting it without reading your actual post.

   For a standard bonk absolutely, laugh it off. Your kid will look to you for your reaction and if they are not actually hurt, if you laugh they'll get up and brush it off. If they start crying immediately when the incident happens, they are signaling to you that they are actually in pain and you need to check on them. It sounds to me like you do let it go when it's a bump or tumble but not when your son immediately cries. You check to make sure nothing serious is injured and then tell them they're okay. It needs to be a balance between letting them shake it off and paying attention when they aren't.

   Can I ask your husband's perspective when you discuss this? Did he grow up in a “walk it off” family? Does he ever check on your son when he seems to be hurt or crying? How is he generally in their relationship?

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2. It sounds like you need to talk to her more or maybe just let it play out a bit. She's not wrong for having an issue with you smoking, but I'm not really in a position to tell you you're wrong for doing it in your circumstance. Maybe you can eventually find a healthier way to conrol your urges, though? Crossfit or whatever? Or at least switch to vaping/gum/etc.

   Congrats on being sober, though! Don't do anything to jeopardize that.

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3. If I were you, I'd let her buy me out of the house.

   Maybe look at it this way: not all relationships have to end in tragedy or drama – part as friends, while you still can, and go your separate ways.

   I think that the open relationship option that she's giving you has an extremely high chance to crash and burn spectacularly and ruin what good you found in each other.

   It depends on you, of course – she's not really asking you to separate sex from emotion (the fwb option she mentioned – which I always took to mean that caring for the person you are with is part of the equation) but to delegate such an intimate part of your connection to someone else while she does whatever she thinks she's doing – an ascetic and abstentious search for something? Who on earth knows.

   She mentions that you would still share a life and some sort of closeness – but would you really?

   And if you did – how much would it fuck with your head?

   If it's something that it's not part of your nature, if you're mainly monogamic or want to share all aspects of that sort of connection with one person trying to figure out if her sort of polygamy? open relationship? works for you by actually doing it is a very bad idea.

   NOt to mention that maybe she herself has absolutely no clue of what you actually going through with it would mean to and for her – she may have a picture of how this would work clinically on paper but may actually find it devastating or alienating in reality, trying to change her terms mid-run, creating even more confusion and unhappiness, for all you know.

   The odds aren't in your favour.

   Just have a clean break-up.

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