Thank you! I really appreciate that advice! You’re right, we definitely moved too quickly. I guess I feel like I’m just walking on eggshells now that the balls in his court for the breakup and idk if I can live! like that. We on-line together and our dogs are in love with each other so it’s really tough. But, thank you for that!! You’re right.
Thank you. I didn't feel like you were debating me, I'm just trying to challenge things for anyone on my “side” so I'm not just in an echo chamber, you know?
I think a lot of things you say ring true, I just love him (derp) so it's a painful extrication, and I also have a lot of self-doubt cos I know I'm not perfect and am unsure if, as he often says, I have standards that are unreasonably high or unattainable.
I really really appreciate all your words and I'll be re-reading comments in this thread and mulling them over over the next few days. I don't want to make any rash decisions, but I also want to try to be objective, too.
Thank you! I really appreciate that advice! You’re right, we definitely moved too quickly. I guess I feel like I’m just walking on eggshells now that the balls in his court for the breakup and idk if I can live! like that. We on-line together and our dogs are in love with each other so it’s really tough. But, thank you for that!! You’re right.
Okay…you’re not really doing anything to flesh this out. Maybe work on what your trying to ask.
Thank you. I didn't feel like you were debating me, I'm just trying to challenge things for anyone on my “side” so I'm not just in an echo chamber, you know?
I think a lot of things you say ring true, I just love him (derp) so it's a painful extrication, and I also have a lot of self-doubt cos I know I'm not perfect and am unsure if, as he often says, I have standards that are unreasonably high or unattainable.
I really really appreciate all your words and I'll be re-reading comments in this thread and mulling them over over the next few days. I don't want to make any rash decisions, but I also want to try to be objective, too.