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he said he is too embarrassed by his reaction he doesn't feel comfortable discussing it with anyone
I usually don't recommend ultimatums, but I think it's time for that. If it were me, I'd be very clear that you're not sure that you can move past this. If he wants to save this marriage, then this is what needs to happen. Then he can choose what's more important to him. He made this mess and he should account for it. He doesn't get a pass because he's embarrassed.
On the subject of your son, don't go down that road of staying together for the kids. That's been debunked…kids do way better with divorced parents than they do married ones who resent each other. Sometimes giving your child the best environment to grow up requires you to be a little selfish.
he said he is too embarrassed by his reaction he doesn't feel comfortable discussing it with anyone
I usually don't recommend ultimatums, but I think it's time for that. If it were me, I'd be very clear that you're not sure that you can move past this. If he wants to save this marriage, then this is what needs to happen. Then he can choose what's more important to him. He made this mess and he should account for it. He doesn't get a pass because he's embarrassed.
On the subject of your son, don't go down that road of staying together for the kids. That's been debunked…kids do way better with divorced parents than they do married ones who resent each other. Sometimes giving your child the best environment to grow up requires you to be a little selfish.