I'm not a very formal person so yeah lol. Or at least I used to before I got an IUD and stopped having periods. 10/10, highly recommend and do not miss periods at all. OP may want to consider this if she hasn't already!
It is quite common for us to want the pain and distress to stop.
Everything you have described is as this process usually happens. Breakups trigger grief and pain for us and it is natural that it takes time.
I thoroughly understand your frustration. I believe some of the things you have mentioned will help. Making sure you get out (even when you do not want to do it). Get together with other friends to do activities. If you are in sports, that can help because physical activity improves our positive feelings.
This may sound a little bit weird, but meditation and mindful breathing can help us move forward from trauma (and yes, this is a trauma – not a physical one to be sure, but a trauma nonetheless).
If you have a good relationship with your parents, they can be an excellent resource to see how they have dealt with this.
while SOME of the things he says is true, all YOU said is that you want to dress nicer. He went COMPLETLY overboard and off the rails.
While a lot of women go too far with dressing for attention, a person in your situation dresses in less concealing, and I don't mean skin tight short skirts with a neckline going down to their navel, clothing as therapy and to overcome their issues. You can dress nice without wanting validation or looking like you're going to the Red Light district. 'Dressing Nice' has a vast meaning.
Simply put. You do you, and if doofus doesn't like it, kick him to the curb. If he's not a part of the solution, he's part of the problem.
He can sit down with you, talk, rationally, about how you plan to dress, and the 2 of you can come up with something you're both comfortable with.
Wow. You really need to grow up. You’re only 18 and you’re already looking out to manipulate and twist a person for your own needs and nothing else.
I can only hope that women steer out of your way for their own sake. You don’t want a partner, you want a plaything.
100%
My boyfriend can touch me any time. If I say I'm not into the mood, he'll just stop. That's not assault. That's just a relationship.
OP – you are seriously overdoing this. It's super fucking overly dramatic.
I'm not a very formal person so yeah lol. Or at least I used to before I got an IUD and stopped having periods. 10/10, highly recommend and do not miss periods at all. OP may want to consider this if she hasn't already!
It is quite common for us to want the pain and distress to stop.
Everything you have described is as this process usually happens. Breakups trigger grief and pain for us and it is natural that it takes time.
I thoroughly understand your frustration. I believe some of the things you have mentioned will help. Making sure you get out (even when you do not want to do it). Get together with other friends to do activities. If you are in sports, that can help because physical activity improves our positive feelings.
This may sound a little bit weird, but meditation and mindful breathing can help us move forward from trauma (and yes, this is a trauma – not a physical one to be sure, but a trauma nonetheless).
If you have a good relationship with your parents, they can be an excellent resource to see how they have dealt with this.
I wish you the best.
while SOME of the things he says is true, all YOU said is that you want to dress nicer. He went COMPLETLY overboard and off the rails.
While a lot of women go too far with dressing for attention, a person in your situation dresses in less concealing, and I don't mean skin tight short skirts with a neckline going down to their navel, clothing as therapy and to overcome their issues. You can dress nice without wanting validation or looking like you're going to the Red Light district. 'Dressing Nice' has a vast meaning.
Simply put. You do you, and if doofus doesn't like it, kick him to the curb. If he's not a part of the solution, he's part of the problem.
He can sit down with you, talk, rationally, about how you plan to dress, and the 2 of you can come up with something you're both comfortable with.
You live with her?