This is unfortunately a deal breaker situation at its core. There is no middle ground, you can’t have half a child. Would you risk being resentful of him for your entire life because he didn’t want kids so you never had any? Would you risk him being resentful of you because you wanted kids and you had them? Or would you rather start off with someone new who was on the same page as you regarding children?
He is “isolating her.” In the OP she literally said she should go out and be active while he's working, and even offered to give her the vehicle to do so. That's not abuse. And no one forced her to move, nor did anyone preclude her from getting a job nor force her to get married. She freely chose to move with him for him to pursue this career. Unless the OP says he is abusing her, you really shouldn't make such inflammatory implications.
Money can be replaced, your sanity and freedom cannot.
This is unfortunately a deal breaker situation at its core. There is no middle ground, you can’t have half a child. Would you risk being resentful of him for your entire life because he didn’t want kids so you never had any? Would you risk him being resentful of you because you wanted kids and you had them? Or would you rather start off with someone new who was on the same page as you regarding children?
He is “isolating her.” In the OP she literally said she should go out and be active while he's working, and even offered to give her the vehicle to do so. That's not abuse. And no one forced her to move, nor did anyone preclude her from getting a job nor force her to get married. She freely chose to move with him for him to pursue this career. Unless the OP says he is abusing her, you really shouldn't make such inflammatory implications.