Guilt can be a heavy motivator. But all you can do now is decide if you love this guy enough to marry him even if he doesn't have a posh apartment. Given all the drama in this relationship it might be better to just end it and maybe go find someone who still has ownership of a nice place, if this is your goal in life.
Maybe?
These things don't tend to happen overnight, might have been named before you met.
All right they are cosmetical procedures with immediate and drastic results and some risks.
Happy now?
Guilt can be a heavy motivator. But all you can do now is decide if you love this guy enough to marry him even if he doesn't have a posh apartment. Given all the drama in this relationship it might be better to just end it and maybe go find someone who still has ownership of a nice place, if this is your goal in life.