So your boyfriend knows about this but believes he is a changed man?
Just NOPE. I could not be involved in this family. The primary reason being that they have normalised the abuse. They haven't addressed it, preferring to pretend that it didn't happen or that it 'wasn't that bad'.
Are you up for pretending it didn't happen for the rest of your life? You'll be a part of the people defending him then.
I personally couldn't envisage a future with this man unless he went nc with his father.
Whenever he calls you that, do not respond to him or engage.
So your boyfriend knows about this but believes he is a changed man?
Just NOPE. I could not be involved in this family. The primary reason being that they have normalised the abuse. They haven't addressed it, preferring to pretend that it didn't happen or that it 'wasn't that bad'.
Are you up for pretending it didn't happen for the rest of your life? You'll be a part of the people defending him then.
I personally couldn't envisage a future with this man unless he went nc with his father.