Eh it's not terribly toxic unless it was a serious relationship if y'all break up amicably and take the time to actually get over each other first it isn't terrible I have a friend who I've known 9 years we dated when we were younger wasn't too serious but was kinda the childhood sweetheart relationship. We didn't talk for almost 3 years after ending it but we're back to being really good friends with zero feelings
Honestly, I would advise your wife to take some space away from you and decide on her own, with consultation from a therapist and possibly her friends and family (not you) whether she wants to go through with this pregnancy or terminate.
Weaponizing your daughter against her is disgusting and wrong, and it's incredibly obvious to everyone reading this post that you need to talk to a therapist of your own about your extreme selfishness. If you don't learn how to stop constantly putting your own wants first, you're never going to be capable of maintaining a healthy family or marriage with anyone.
You married a man old enough to be your grandfather and gave him a child. You were groomed to the high heavens and everyone in your life has failed you. I wonder if it’s related to religion. Either way, this isn’t your fault and you need to go. ASAP. You said it was abusive. u/ebbie45 has plenty of resources that might be able to help. Good luck.
Yeah for sure … unfortunate but true. Although, I know I’m still a catch 🙂 this isn’t just a lack of sexual excitement though… it’s literally a feeling of repulsion.
I don't think it's that deep. I think this is a writing assignment and iirc the point of some of these is to get the most attention. I think they used a trans character cause a straight person lying isn't going to get the same level of notice this post did. Proven by the fact we're all here bickering about whether it's fake or not commenting etc.
There's a difference between voicing your feeling to give the people in your life an understanding of how your brain works and voicing your feelings because you want a specific reaction from that person.
Just because her neutral comment made you feel bad, doesn't mean she actually did something wrong. And while some situations do deserve acknowledgement and an apology, some situations require you to acknowledge your feelings to yourself, determine if that person actually did something wrong, and if the answer is no, deal with your emotions on your own or with a therapist.
Thats how small the shirt was. I’m not possessive. in the year we’ve been together that was the first time i mentioned not liking what she’s wearing. Didnt tell her to change or anything. And no, i dont think or ever thought she wants to fuck her cousin. I just find it weird because again, it’s something i wouldnt do.
by simple calculation, you haven't been married for even 5 years, you have no children with him, and you haven't filed a pregnant woman who you've been separated from for 18 months,
Since you don't have a girlfriend or serious relationship for 18 months, you have libido problems.
you have to stay with her, you're stupid enough, keep raising her kids and watching her get pregnant by others.
Of your not ok with it than fine, do what you gotta do. I know it can be a weird thing to comprehend but to your bf and the groom it means absolutely nothing to have a bachelor party in Vegas
Yes, you should voice your needs. How else will he learn what you like?
You sound like a gentlemen omg. She doesn’t deserve you obviously but it’s up to you to take that important step and leave
Eh it's not terribly toxic unless it was a serious relationship if y'all break up amicably and take the time to actually get over each other first it isn't terrible I have a friend who I've known 9 years we dated when we were younger wasn't too serious but was kinda the childhood sweetheart relationship. We didn't talk for almost 3 years after ending it but we're back to being really good friends with zero feelings
I would’ve left her there if she disrespected me like that.
Honestly, I would advise your wife to take some space away from you and decide on her own, with consultation from a therapist and possibly her friends and family (not you) whether she wants to go through with this pregnancy or terminate.
Weaponizing your daughter against her is disgusting and wrong, and it's incredibly obvious to everyone reading this post that you need to talk to a therapist of your own about your extreme selfishness. If you don't learn how to stop constantly putting your own wants first, you're never going to be capable of maintaining a healthy family or marriage with anyone.
Well it's clear that I can see she doesn't respect me.
No idea what to say beyond good luck finding a guy who is up for 4 to 5 times a day!
Is this the first time this has happened or is it consistently happening?
You married a man old enough to be your grandfather and gave him a child. You were groomed to the high heavens and everyone in your life has failed you. I wonder if it’s related to religion. Either way, this isn’t your fault and you need to go. ASAP. You said it was abusive. u/ebbie45 has plenty of resources that might be able to help. Good luck.
As a Brit living in the US, you should remind him we invented the fucking language and he should fuck the fuck off.
Yeah for sure … unfortunate but true. Although, I know I’m still a catch 🙂 this isn’t just a lack of sexual excitement though… it’s literally a feeling of repulsion.
Thank you. I'll hold onto the hope that things will get better.
*hugs
I don't think it's that deep. I think this is a writing assignment and iirc the point of some of these is to get the most attention. I think they used a trans character cause a straight person lying isn't going to get the same level of notice this post did. Proven by the fact we're all here bickering about whether it's fake or not commenting etc.
Honestly sounds like homeboy is trying to scam you. No one asks someone they’ve only known for a month for money, certainly not in that amount.
If you give it, you’ll never get it back and it’s likely he’ll ghost you.
his explanation seems legit.
There's a difference between voicing your feeling to give the people in your life an understanding of how your brain works and voicing your feelings because you want a specific reaction from that person.
Just because her neutral comment made you feel bad, doesn't mean she actually did something wrong. And while some situations do deserve acknowledgement and an apology, some situations require you to acknowledge your feelings to yourself, determine if that person actually did something wrong, and if the answer is no, deal with your emotions on your own or with a therapist.
Then she can pay for her parents, why should he be the one to pay for everything especially when she's the one who wants a big wedding? Unbelievable.
Thats how small the shirt was. I’m not possessive. in the year we’ve been together that was the first time i mentioned not liking what she’s wearing. Didnt tell her to change or anything. And no, i dont think or ever thought she wants to fuck her cousin. I just find it weird because again, it’s something i wouldnt do.
by simple calculation, you haven't been married for even 5 years, you have no children with him, and you haven't filed a pregnant woman who you've been separated from for 18 months,
Since you don't have a girlfriend or serious relationship for 18 months, you have libido problems.
you have to stay with her, you're stupid enough, keep raising her kids and watching her get pregnant by others.
Of your not ok with it than fine, do what you gotta do. I know it can be a weird thing to comprehend but to your bf and the groom it means absolutely nothing to have a bachelor party in Vegas
He’s showing you who he is!!!! Believe it!!!