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Sit down and talk with your partner. Tbh it sounds like she hurt your feelings. It’s literally hearing that the person you care about about to see other people. It makes you question yourself “are you not enough”. It fucks with your self esteem. The reason you’re feeling distant is because you’re hurting. Communicate to them how you feel and why they want to be in an open relationship. It’s okay to grow apart as people and want different things but don’t lose yourself in the relationship. You deserve the right to be happy as much as she does. Wish you the best!
if youre scared do it the easiest way possible…. copy the link on your phone and text it to her… . tell her youre sorry that your scared and cant express the words without getting emotional so you wrote them here looking for advice… you can do it while shes away or while youre at work… that'll give her time to process it… include the fact that you dont need a response back over the phone, that you will talk later that night and set up some alone time… the fear is understandable… but this girl loves you, you love her or you wouldnt be doing the things youre doing… have this talk for the both of you i swear it'll get better.
Don't do it. Do not do it. She might be feeling like she's doing you a favor now but i personally would feel shit as fuck afterwards if my husband actually went through with that. It would change so much in the relationship, for her as a woman, for you both as a couple. If my husband slept with someone else I'd feel devastated and if i put him up to it because i felt guilty I'd feel worse because it was my idea. And you might actually develop a relationship with the best friend and that will fuck up not just your marriage irreparably but her friendship too.
Just don't do it. Rather actually spend time with the woman you love. Maybe get some couples therapy and do more things together. Just don't mess up a marriage for sexual gratification. It's never ever worth it.
No you said seven, not four nights of sex. You ARE FORCING HER! She either had to give you sex every night or you don’t stop masturbating. Do you not know how crazy that sounds???? You are holding her hostage to your sex drive! That’s psychotic!
How The Fuck is this him holding her hostage? She doesn't have to have sex with him 7 nights a he will just jack off if she doesn't feel like fucking. Why does he HAVE to accept her deal of 4 nights a week sex for 3 days of no orgasm and he will find it difficult to go to sleep and that isn't controlling but him not accepting her terms and just saying he will take care of himself if she doesn't is him being controlling?
Well plants is a different thing, if he doesn’t like plants either then a cactus would work I guess. I mean if he buys you other things that also satisfy you, he’s not completely ignorant. You might wanna try buying the plants yourself and filling the house with them so he starts noticing what you want to be surrounded with.
OP, you are 19. Tell Stiflers mum to bounce. This relationship is never going to work in the long run so you may as well let Mrs Robinson go to Disneyland, bang Shane and set you free.
If your Mum cannot behave like an adult then she should not be invited. You should not be punishing someone else for the lack of maturity and respect for others that your mother is showing.
You've got chemistry, he's either.interested or he just wants to fuck you, or he thinks he is interested but it's really just a fantasy. If you do it then you can't trust each other in a relationship. So there's nothing to gain here.
If you have sexual chemistry with someone when you're in a relationship you back off, you don't make excuses to see them, flirt with them, spend time with them, smell them and post on the internet about them.
The more time you spend around him the more you risk falling in love. Your relationship will suffer if it isn't already, it'll be damaged or destroyed.
I experienced something similar. I thought the relationship was ok. I mean, we had some obstacles at the time, but were addressing them and we were ok – that's what people in a relationship do, they work through crap.
He sent me flowers on Valentine's Day with a sweet message, then just… Disappeared. Nice….
I think it's normal when something ends so… inorganically, to be confused and to want to know what went wrong, what you missed. However, you also need to be honest with yourself. What helped me get through and not obsess over this person is the reality that I wasn't going to be able to change things and it wasn't healthy for me to live! in that hole.
Please, OP… Stop obsessing on this person who has moved on. Seek therapy to help you manage this, if you need help. I wish you the best.
The only person who has the power to let him spin lies at you is you. You know he’s cheating. He knows he’s cheating. You don’t need to worry about whether or not he believes you know. You just tell him you want the divorce and throw him out. Only you can give or refuse the chance for him to spin his lies.
Ask him what more he thinks you could possibly be doing. If you’re working plus doing all of the housework plus self improvement he insists on, you’re doing more than your share.
Yo I was scrolling insta reels when Reddit sent me a notif for this post, right as I pulled it down the read the full title the reel’s sound literally said/whispered “RUN” ? But back to topic, if you ain’t have a serious conversation with her yet about how uncomfortable it makes you for her to keep contact with him after knowing their history, if she doesn’t respect that and cut ties or keep a distance from him, then listen to the reel sound… RUN. It ain’t worth if she doesn’t respect you
She was the one who purposed to me, Little odd but sure why not, Not sure why the age gap has to do with it? I just recently turn 25 and she’s 21 this year so it’s not a huge gap
It’s common courtesy that you don’t speak with your ex partners when you’re in a new relationship because it all goes pear-shape
I hope you realize she just called you a liar, and she doesn't trust you. She also just told you that she will never have your back. You don't deserve that, and she doesn't deserve you. I'm will to bet he's done this with every relationship she's ever had. While yes he's gay, he's also overly attached to your girlfriend, and refuses to share her with anyone in the romantic sense. Until she wakes up, and realizes what he's doing she'll always end up alone. That is not your fault, it's hers, and not something you should have to fix, or tolerate. I understand you love her, but she jist showed you she really doesn't love you. Record him the next time he starts his crap, send it to her, along with a text that says you didn't believe me so here, now we're done, and walk away because you deserve better.
Yeah people yell, if your going to freak out everytime someone gets upset, then your going to have a difficult time being around people. Its also messed up to think just bc he yelled once after 2 years of never yelling that he was “holding back” from physical violence. That is called projecting. Maybe try and talk to some professionals and try and get over your trama. I hope u figure it out
So he's been consistently cheating on you, told his AP that he's in an open marriage, and when you mentioned you two separating, he “booked” a flight to a faraway state.
You're the only person interested in that marriage.
Sit down and talk with your partner. Tbh it sounds like she hurt your feelings. It’s literally hearing that the person you care about about to see other people. It makes you question yourself “are you not enough”. It fucks with your self esteem. The reason you’re feeling distant is because you’re hurting. Communicate to them how you feel and why they want to be in an open relationship. It’s okay to grow apart as people and want different things but don’t lose yourself in the relationship. You deserve the right to be happy as much as she does. Wish you the best!
if youre scared do it the easiest way possible…. copy the link on your phone and text it to her… . tell her youre sorry that your scared and cant express the words without getting emotional so you wrote them here looking for advice… you can do it while shes away or while youre at work… that'll give her time to process it… include the fact that you dont need a response back over the phone, that you will talk later that night and set up some alone time… the fear is understandable… but this girl loves you, you love her or you wouldnt be doing the things youre doing… have this talk for the both of you i swear it'll get better.
Don't do it. Do not do it. She might be feeling like she's doing you a favor now but i personally would feel shit as fuck afterwards if my husband actually went through with that. It would change so much in the relationship, for her as a woman, for you both as a couple. If my husband slept with someone else I'd feel devastated and if i put him up to it because i felt guilty I'd feel worse because it was my idea. And you might actually develop a relationship with the best friend and that will fuck up not just your marriage irreparably but her friendship too.
Just don't do it. Rather actually spend time with the woman you love. Maybe get some couples therapy and do more things together. Just don't mess up a marriage for sexual gratification. It's never ever worth it.
No you said seven, not four nights of sex. You ARE FORCING HER! She either had to give you sex every night or you don’t stop masturbating. Do you not know how crazy that sounds???? You are holding her hostage to your sex drive! That’s psychotic!
How The Fuck is this him holding her hostage? She doesn't have to have sex with him 7 nights a he will just jack off if she doesn't feel like fucking. Why does he HAVE to accept her deal of 4 nights a week sex for 3 days of no orgasm and he will find it difficult to go to sleep and that isn't controlling but him not accepting her terms and just saying he will take care of himself if she doesn't is him being controlling?
When the police are involved, it is time to move on. This isn't romance and love, it is dysfunctional Jerry Springerish.
Well plants is a different thing, if he doesn’t like plants either then a cactus would work I guess. I mean if he buys you other things that also satisfy you, he’s not completely ignorant. You might wanna try buying the plants yourself and filling the house with them so he starts noticing what you want to be surrounded with.
Learn to cook
OP, you are 19. Tell Stiflers mum to bounce. This relationship is never going to work in the long run so you may as well let Mrs Robinson go to Disneyland, bang Shane and set you free.
Water bottles are probably less smelly than chamber pots, it has a cap
If your Mum cannot behave like an adult then she should not be invited. You should not be punishing someone else for the lack of maturity and respect for others that your mother is showing.
Check yourself before you wreck yourself.
You've got chemistry, he's either.interested or he just wants to fuck you, or he thinks he is interested but it's really just a fantasy. If you do it then you can't trust each other in a relationship. So there's nothing to gain here.
If you have sexual chemistry with someone when you're in a relationship you back off, you don't make excuses to see them, flirt with them, spend time with them, smell them and post on the internet about them.
The more time you spend around him the more you risk falling in love. Your relationship will suffer if it isn't already, it'll be damaged or destroyed.
I experienced something similar. I thought the relationship was ok. I mean, we had some obstacles at the time, but were addressing them and we were ok – that's what people in a relationship do, they work through crap.
He sent me flowers on Valentine's Day with a sweet message, then just… Disappeared. Nice….
I think it's normal when something ends so… inorganically, to be confused and to want to know what went wrong, what you missed. However, you also need to be honest with yourself. What helped me get through and not obsess over this person is the reality that I wasn't going to be able to change things and it wasn't healthy for me to live! in that hole.
Please, OP… Stop obsessing on this person who has moved on. Seek therapy to help you manage this, if you need help. I wish you the best.
The only person who has the power to let him spin lies at you is you. You know he’s cheating. He knows he’s cheating. You don’t need to worry about whether or not he believes you know. You just tell him you want the divorce and throw him out. Only you can give or refuse the chance for him to spin his lies.
He sounds awful.
Ask him what more he thinks you could possibly be doing. If you’re working plus doing all of the housework plus self improvement he insists on, you’re doing more than your share.
This.
Simply put, you can't trust people who don't leave the past in the past, and ex-partners (sans the ones who share children) ALWAYS belong in the past.
Yo I was scrolling insta reels when Reddit sent me a notif for this post, right as I pulled it down the read the full title the reel’s sound literally said/whispered “RUN” ? But back to topic, if you ain’t have a serious conversation with her yet about how uncomfortable it makes you for her to keep contact with him after knowing their history, if she doesn’t respect that and cut ties or keep a distance from him, then listen to the reel sound… RUN. It ain’t worth if she doesn’t respect you
Once you leave him he’s going to become 10/10 and bagging so many women or men (you never know), there for the good gone for the bad. Goodluck
She was the one who purposed to me, Little odd but sure why not, Not sure why the age gap has to do with it? I just recently turn 25 and she’s 21 this year so it’s not a huge gap
It’s common courtesy that you don’t speak with your ex partners when you’re in a new relationship because it all goes pear-shape
Leave and ghost. Just block him EVERYWHERE and never give a single explanation.
I hope you realize she just called you a liar, and she doesn't trust you. She also just told you that she will never have your back. You don't deserve that, and she doesn't deserve you. I'm will to bet he's done this with every relationship she's ever had. While yes he's gay, he's also overly attached to your girlfriend, and refuses to share her with anyone in the romantic sense. Until she wakes up, and realizes what he's doing she'll always end up alone. That is not your fault, it's hers, and not something you should have to fix, or tolerate. I understand you love her, but she jist showed you she really doesn't love you. Record him the next time he starts his crap, send it to her, along with a text that says you didn't believe me so here, now we're done, and walk away because you deserve better.
Yeah people yell, if your going to freak out everytime someone gets upset, then your going to have a difficult time being around people. Its also messed up to think just bc he yelled once after 2 years of never yelling that he was “holding back” from physical violence. That is called projecting. Maybe try and talk to some professionals and try and get over your trama. I hope u figure it out
So he's been consistently cheating on you, told his AP that he's in an open marriage, and when you mentioned you two separating, he “booked” a flight to a faraway state.
You're the only person interested in that marriage.
How many have you met that aren't sexually compatible? You must be young.
How many have you met that aren't sexually compatible? You must be young.