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Regardless of your reasons, you've said, “I don't want this marriage,” that you foresee numerous times. You need clarity with him on this. I'm guessing he only agreed with the pastor because he wanted to make your wedding night more special, and your fears are unwarranted. TALK TO HIM.
Could you imagine if instead of telling her today:
A) in a month she tells you about her boyfriend and in 6 months tells you she must stay away from you because he is jealous
Or
B) trying to not lose your best friend, you find yourself a girlfriend and then your best friend just ghosts you and 18 months from now you learn she was devastated that you didn't feel for her as she felt for you and convinced all mutual friends that you were leading her on, so they never communicated with you?
Imagine all the hurt that could come by fear of talking to your best friend about the most important aspect of your life.
I think you need to cook it a little bit. If you had asked a straightforward question, ‘would you like to get coffee with me tomorrow after X class?’, she would have been able to say yes or no. I think you probably threw her by assuming that she wanted to get coffee with you and you were just sorting out the logistics. You didn’t actually give you a chance to say yes, or no, before you starting asking about a timetable.
Now she knows you want to get coffee, and she’s probably feeling a bit awkward because she’s thinking that you assumed she would say yes and she’s possibly overthinking this a bit too. I would give it a bit of time, and see if she asks you to get coffee. She might say ‘hey I’m free tomorrow if you still want to get coffee.’
Take other advice here too. My feeling is that you could wait two or three weeks and then try one more time with a direct question: ‘hey I’m going to get coffee after x class of you would like to join me.’ Give her a chance to refuse or accept. She might say ‘sorry I’ve got x class, but I could meet you after that’ or whatever. Possibly one more try in due time with a yes/no question, and then after that leave it.
YOU ARE ABSOLUTELY ALLOWED TO BE PROUD OF HER, you sound like an absolute sweetie. I think that you should probably speak to Rose about it first and foremost, and she can help you follow up and discuss it with Lola. Something along the lines of 'I love you and I'm really grateful that you feel like I'm someone that you can rely on, but we all (you, Rose and John) don't want you to feel like I'm replacing your dad because he will always be your number 1 guy even if he's a little bit further away. How about we come up with another nickname for me?'
Regardless of your reasons, you've said, “I don't want this marriage,” that you foresee numerous times. You need clarity with him on this. I'm guessing he only agreed with the pastor because he wanted to make your wedding night more special, and your fears are unwarranted. TALK TO HIM.
People cant read just ignore all these people making it seem like youre mad hes insecure and not because he BETRAYED you.
Could you imagine if instead of telling her today:
A) in a month she tells you about her boyfriend and in 6 months tells you she must stay away from you because he is jealous
Or
B) trying to not lose your best friend, you find yourself a girlfriend and then your best friend just ghosts you and 18 months from now you learn she was devastated that you didn't feel for her as she felt for you and convinced all mutual friends that you were leading her on, so they never communicated with you?
Imagine all the hurt that could come by fear of talking to your best friend about the most important aspect of your life.
That’s nasty
I think you need to cook it a little bit. If you had asked a straightforward question, ‘would you like to get coffee with me tomorrow after X class?’, she would have been able to say yes or no. I think you probably threw her by assuming that she wanted to get coffee with you and you were just sorting out the logistics. You didn’t actually give you a chance to say yes, or no, before you starting asking about a timetable.
Now she knows you want to get coffee, and she’s probably feeling a bit awkward because she’s thinking that you assumed she would say yes and she’s possibly overthinking this a bit too. I would give it a bit of time, and see if she asks you to get coffee. She might say ‘hey I’m free tomorrow if you still want to get coffee.’
Take other advice here too. My feeling is that you could wait two or three weeks and then try one more time with a direct question: ‘hey I’m going to get coffee after x class of you would like to join me.’ Give her a chance to refuse or accept. She might say ‘sorry I’ve got x class, but I could meet you after that’ or whatever. Possibly one more try in due time with a yes/no question, and then after that leave it.
YOU ARE ABSOLUTELY ALLOWED TO BE PROUD OF HER, you sound like an absolute sweetie. I think that you should probably speak to Rose about it first and foremost, and she can help you follow up and discuss it with Lola. Something along the lines of 'I love you and I'm really grateful that you feel like I'm someone that you can rely on, but we all (you, Rose and John) don't want you to feel like I'm replacing your dad because he will always be your number 1 guy even if he's a little bit further away. How about we come up with another nickname for me?'