It’s always the friend you don’t have to worry about. It’s a bunch of bs. Because even if it hasn’t gotten physical in regards to sex, it is certainly at least the beginning of emotional affair situation. Also the massages and cuddles are too intimate for someone who is not your SO. He AND Lisa need to understand appropriate boundaries. It’s disrespectful to you and the relationship.
If your thought process was “I'm angry at my partner so I don't feel like putting effort into cooking for them today,” it would be fine. But the fact that you want to punish them is a problem. Intentionally upsetting your partner isn't a healthy part of any relationship.
Please don't go back to him. Try to like yourself a little more.
How did you last 3 times of this? Why on earth did you get married?
Its time to go babe.
It’s always the friend you don’t have to worry about. It’s a bunch of bs. Because even if it hasn’t gotten physical in regards to sex, it is certainly at least the beginning of emotional affair situation. Also the massages and cuddles are too intimate for someone who is not your SO. He AND Lisa need to understand appropriate boundaries. It’s disrespectful to you and the relationship.
If your thought process was “I'm angry at my partner so I don't feel like putting effort into cooking for them today,” it would be fine. But the fact that you want to punish them is a problem. Intentionally upsetting your partner isn't a healthy part of any relationship.
All I'm thinking about right now is the Trainspotting scene. Glad yours didnt turn out like that.
You’re welcome and I truly hope that things work out better for you
Updateme!