This is honestly why you want to stay away from fuck boys and tramp stamps.
Nothing good ever comes from people who fuck around, because ultimately they find out; either through disease, children, or bat-shit crazy people you run across in those circles.
Just the fact that you supposedly had to TELL him it was unacceptable is utterly ridiculous – he knew EXACTLY what he was doing and he already KNEW it was unacceptable. Don't fall for that nonsense he's selling you, “gosh and golly, I didn't realize what an infringement that was on your person and your privacy, but now that I KNOW, I'll certainly respect you going forward.” What a steaming load of bullshit THAT was. He knew exactly what he was doing and I'm willing to bet he's done it before to others.
Seems home boy has a kink. It's called Somnophilia – that's when someone becomes sexually aroused by someone who is unconscious. It's considered “predatory.”
I understand people want to actually believe others can change, but not everyone. It’s time to just let him go. This is not a friend. What a fucking creep.
So you divorced and got married to someone related to the business you co-own with your ex-wife who is 11 years younger?
You need to remove your current wife from the business you own with your ex-wife and your current wife shouldn't be giving “speeches” like she has a stake in the business.
If you actually want to get married you need to sack up and ask her what’s happening. There will be far more trials down the road if you truly wish to share the rest of your lives together.
That is absolutely creepy and disgusting. Not normal at all. I agree with other commenter that dog needs to be out of the room before anything sexual happens. If he’s not ok with that then you know he has major issues. It’s nasty and fucked up he is involving the dog in sexual acts. Absolutely no reason to be petting a dog while you are having sex? The dog is just chilling in bed by you two while you are fucking? How did you allow that to happen? I really think he is into bestiality.
The whole sex industry is based off trying to prove you wrong, btw, lmao.
Some women just want to cum from a dick and some dudes can't do it. It's that simple. Hell, in a span of one week, a girl could barely cum with me while the other one was legit non stop orgasming.
Honestly. If you feel like it could be worth it. Bring it up to him. He could just be neurodivergent, and we are not understanding how his brain is wired.
But it could also just be a freak or anything people have called him on this post.
Just figure out if the investment is worth it for you. Then give it a chance or not. As I said, he could be “special” and the most loyal motherfucker you'll ever meet, or just another creep.
Well we all know how nude it is to be friends with someone of the opposite sex when you’re both straight. Like I have dead on thought yes finally I have an actual female friend just to find out or realize later they were into me in some small way. (Oh that’s why they were so obsessed about telling me where they lived and when they’d be home alone. That always seemed so weird lol.)
Platonic opposite sex friendships are just not that common from my experience. Sure as a man myself and trying to be friends with women I know it’s possible for at least some guys to just be friends, but then I also feel like I’m pretty unique.
Come on she HAS to at least realize that platonic friendships like that just don’t happen that often.
He was putting you down and you kept on apologizing. He was mad and blame everything on you and you bend over backward to make him feel better. Now that his rant is over instead of apologizing for what he did he just pretend nothing happened.
It’s not only on you to take responsibility for him waking up he could ‘ve set the alarm himself, you’re not his mother after all.
So many red flags, get out of there. He will want you to do everything his mom does when she's not there anymore
This is honestly why you want to stay away from fuck boys and tramp stamps.
Nothing good ever comes from people who fuck around, because ultimately they find out; either through disease, children, or bat-shit crazy people you run across in those circles.
Ewww.
Unacceptable.
Just the fact that you supposedly had to TELL him it was unacceptable is utterly ridiculous – he knew EXACTLY what he was doing and he already KNEW it was unacceptable. Don't fall for that nonsense he's selling you, “gosh and golly, I didn't realize what an infringement that was on your person and your privacy, but now that I KNOW, I'll certainly respect you going forward.” What a steaming load of bullshit THAT was. He knew exactly what he was doing and I'm willing to bet he's done it before to others.
Seems home boy has a kink. It's called Somnophilia – that's when someone becomes sexually aroused by someone who is unconscious. It's considered “predatory.”
Yuck.
In all of these years have you spoken to to your family about their treatment of your wife or have you just let her suffer?
The kid is three. He’s not going to understand. What you’re describing is not appropriate and will only cause further harm to the child.
It’s not OPs place to have a “conversation” with his exes child and definitely not his place to be asking for any kind of visitation.
It’s the parents job to explain these things to their kids — not the exes. The best thing to do is let go so everyone can move on.
What's there to be furious about? Are you jackin police?
I understand people want to actually believe others can change, but not everyone. It’s time to just let him go. This is not a friend. What a fucking creep.
So you divorced and got married to someone related to the business you co-own with your ex-wife who is 11 years younger?
You need to remove your current wife from the business you own with your ex-wife and your current wife shouldn't be giving “speeches” like she has a stake in the business.
If you actually want to get married you need to sack up and ask her what’s happening. There will be far more trials down the road if you truly wish to share the rest of your lives together.
Consider this your first communication test.
That is absolutely creepy and disgusting. Not normal at all. I agree with other commenter that dog needs to be out of the room before anything sexual happens. If he’s not ok with that then you know he has major issues. It’s nasty and fucked up he is involving the dog in sexual acts. Absolutely no reason to be petting a dog while you are having sex? The dog is just chilling in bed by you two while you are fucking? How did you allow that to happen? I really think he is into bestiality.
Hahaha reading this makes me super grateful I married someone with the same values and background as me. Take that with what you will.
No it's a professional one
The whole sex industry is based off trying to prove you wrong, btw, lmao.
Some women just want to cum from a dick and some dudes can't do it. It's that simple. Hell, in a span of one week, a girl could barely cum with me while the other one was legit non stop orgasming.
I can’t ask her she thinks it looks guilty
You're 28 and need to get yourself together.
Your gf is nude on you out of frustration, which is not ok behavior. She puts you down instead of lifting you up.
But the issues still start with you. Work on yourself, maybe be single for a while during that growth.
Good job. I only wish my other half would try and not pretend they know how to cook while messing everything up
Honestly. If you feel like it could be worth it. Bring it up to him. He could just be neurodivergent, and we are not understanding how his brain is wired.
But it could also just be a freak or anything people have called him on this post.
Just figure out if the investment is worth it for you. Then give it a chance or not. As I said, he could be “special” and the most loyal motherfucker you'll ever meet, or just another creep.
Well we all know how nude it is to be friends with someone of the opposite sex when you’re both straight. Like I have dead on thought yes finally I have an actual female friend just to find out or realize later they were into me in some small way. (Oh that’s why they were so obsessed about telling me where they lived and when they’d be home alone. That always seemed so weird lol.)
Platonic opposite sex friendships are just not that common from my experience. Sure as a man myself and trying to be friends with women I know it’s possible for at least some guys to just be friends, but then I also feel like I’m pretty unique.
Come on she HAS to at least realize that platonic friendships like that just don’t happen that often.
Agree. Slip in into conversation.
He was putting you down and you kept on apologizing. He was mad and blame everything on you and you bend over backward to make him feel better. Now that his rant is over instead of apologizing for what he did he just pretend nothing happened.
It’s not only on you to take responsibility for him waking up he could ‘ve set the alarm himself, you’re not his mother after all.