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I'll do my best to be kind, patient, and understanding. Thanks for your insight on what may be the reason for her actions.
So she is your entire support system right?
But she has a bunch of friends who can help her and who she also supports.
Also how much of the household organization does she do? Bills, appointments, homework, grocery list, etc?
Start pulling your weight in the coordination of your marriage, and build yourself a support system other than your wife. She can't be your everything, that isn't fair.
Join a group, go watch sports with people, meet other dads at shared kids activities. Just try.
Oh man. That’s tough! On one hand there’s this great opportunity to establish yourself in your field, provide employment for your spouse and child care for your child. That’s quite a set up honestly. Roles like that are pretty rare. It would get you on your feet and independent which you need after having a baby. On the other hand, she loves her dog.
I have two dogs. One is 17 and one is 5 and I love them to death. Idk that I would risk this rare and stabilizing opportunity for the whole family because of my dogs. It would be heartbreaking FOR SURE!
You know what I’m gonna sit this one out
Go with them to see the friend and then plan a trip together…compromise is a key to a successful relationship…sometimes it's more important to make the other person feel happy but at the same time don't neglect your happiness.
She probably hears from her friends how good their husbands are to them, and if you had friends, theoretically you'd hear how good they were to their wives and you'd buck up. I relate to this personally, my bf had one friend with a gf and now he doesn't takk to any of his friends
Why is he doing this?
I suggest you flat out ask him.
He also loves to help other people in solving such challenges. His ex is also really good at CTFs and so whenever she needs help while taking part in such contests, she calls him up and he willingly helps her out. It feels like it's just me he doesn't want to participate with.
Could be a red flag but doesn't have to be. It could be that he simply doesn't want to engage in competitive activities with the girl he loves.
Could of course be a weak ego, too, where he's afraid you may end up becoming good and do better than him. May not be a rational take but an irrational fear. His ex may be the ex for being “too good” at the things he takes pride in.
If the reason he is so upset is because you “gave it up so easily” then drop him. That just speaks volumes on how he thinks of you.
I will say I can understand him being a bit upset that you slept with someone else just simply because he likes you and obviously that isn't a nice thing to think about, BUT, he has no right to vocalise that as you were broken up at the time and weren't even speaking so you did absolutely nothing wrong.
If you really want to stay in this relationship I think you are just gonna have to straight up tell him that he either needs to get over this ASAP or you will leave because him repeatedly getting upset at you for it is not fair and it is not allowing the relationship move forward so it is pointless for the both of you.
Alright so obviously the dead bedroom, treating you like a maid and ignoring you most of the time are the bigger issues here.
It sounds like this relationship is headed towards an end if it isn’t there already. You guys need to have a serious talk about this.
Have you ever asked if he'd be comfortable with them caring for his child?
I'm curious if he recognizes how inappropriate they'd be for that task.
If he doesn't? Kick the boy to the curb and find a grown man who is ready to commit.
Thank you, for that. My bf has to see it as a legit problem. He says sorry and says he won't do it again. And then, does it anyway.
Parroting what others have said. Kick this guy out now. Call the police if you have to. What he did is assault. Plain and simple. There’s no excuse for this. Please also go to the hospital and get checked out for any injuries. They can photo any bruises or cuts and write a report which can help with any criminal investigation or at the very least a restraining order. Please don’t sweep this under the rug. If he can do this what else is he capable of? He needs to be out the door now, not when he wakes up in the morning, but now. Take back any keys of yours he has (do this while he is sleeping if you don’t feel safe and hide them) and get the locks changed too.
He seems embarrassed as a way of manipulating you. If he was really sorry he would not have offered to move out, he would have moved out
When you sponsor someone for citizenship, you agree to financially support them. If they ever end up on public assistance, the government can come after you for the cost. This is true even if you divorce. Marriage is a big responsibility, but marriage + immigration is an even bigger one. (Source: I am a lawyer.)
No condoms no sex, it is as simple as that
It is totally possible to hit the wrong button drunk or something, BUT changing the pictures… not really… unless it was a profile from BEFORE you were together? Otherwise… she went on there… why? Well that is another story… not great.
If my boyfriend did this, I would just walk in the room and say “Bumble. Explain.” And wait… make it awkward so he starts talking… and listen. 90% I would end it there… but I can see the curiosity thing happening. I would have to trust him a lot but really… it would be in my head that this was not good.
In a few years, you’re dating pool will be smaller and your fertility will be lower, meaning that it might be too late, or at least feel that way, to leave.
What he going to do when they pass away? I’m guessing he’ll want kids then, and you’ll be too old.
How long have y’all lived together?
This. I had an ex once cheat on me with someone that has the same name as me. I found out when he texted me in the middle of the night telling me how great of a time he had with me, except he cancelled our date that night because he claimed he had to work. Doofus didn’t even bother to check which one he was sending it to.
This sounds so high-school. They ditched you so now you block their asses and do what us introverted ppl do. I prefer playing THE SIMS. I'm also in an introverted fb group where we turn on over camera's pointed at the computer and play “together” we talk when we feel like it. Those “friends” were definitely not a match.
Shoot your shot. Just be prepared for some immature bullshit dating a 19yo.
All 30 of them will hate you soon. You threw your staff under the bus to kiss ass to upper management and show everyone how powerful you are. They’re all going to know that you’re a backstabbing tattle tale because word travels fast, and morale will deteriorate in your little fiefdom. And the consequences of that—higher labor costs, complaints, lost sales—will fall on you. That’s why good managers know that morale is everything. As to what to do, did you give that any thought before running to tattle to upper management? Did you think about that when putting black marks in the personnel files of two adult women for taking a celebratory drink of alcohol that was offered to them? No, you didn’t. So… maybe find a new job more suited to your skill set?
I am confusion. I feel like I’m being trickle truthed LOL.
If she were sweet to you, your parents would notice. They might say, well, she’s irresponsible & rough around the edges, but she’s so wonderful to our boy. Hopefully, she’ll mature eventually.
Instead, they think she’s a brat.
I wish I knew what you do. I don’t understand this one
You’re not going to make him understand because he already knows your concerns and his solution is for you to suck it up. Do you really want to cave to giving up complete autonomy over your life and the decisions in your household every few months while walking on eggshells and editing what you wear so not to arouse your FIL? Your boyfriend has made it clear the visits will not stop, the criticisms will not stop, and you should make accommodations for them without expecting any return.
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Hon, I'm married.
Guess, how many times my husband has lost his cool, yelled at me and called me names?
Zero.
We're not perfect, but you don't yell and cuss at your SO.
Waving a trash bag with broken glass in front of one's face? Nope, nope, that's a “see ya never”.
I just really like him. He was understanding and we had deep ass conversations and haven’t felt that way in a while. I really wanted to meet him etc but now ugh it’s so conflicted. I’m an overthinker so now I’m just thinking a lot. I even sent him a msg about what you just said to see what his response would be tomorrow.
Lol, good to hear he showed his true colours. I found the same thing happened with guys at my girlfriends uni who wanted to have lunch with her. For some mysterious reason they always said it's fine that she's in a relationship because they just want friends, but when she said I'd be coming along to make friends too they'd change their minds.
This is why you snoop. Privacy should be compromised in relationship exactly to build trust, and it is only faur to your partner.
“MUH breach of privacy” enables people like your bf or cheaters to hide and lie to their partners.
If your bf could keep this to himself he can hide plenty other things from you. Of course, you should stay with him pretending to accept it, as you plan how to move out and not be homeless. No need to be honest with someone that didn't have the same courtesy towards you.
Yeah because being with OP isn't enough for her. Why doesn't she just go be single and fuck around!
No she wants him at home waiting for her while she's out with other men.