Talk to him tell him thats a private valentine day gift not a Christmas gift and he needs to get you another gift. Family will want to know what he got you and you'll end up telling them nothing he got me nothing..
Tell him that will be a welcome to the family killer.
If he does not get you another then sounds like he is about the sex and not about a solid future.
There are some cultures where remitence is so common, it's expected. Some Latin cultures fall under this umbrella. Your girlfriend has probably already been sending her money to her mom/sister, but likely not close to $1k a month.
I think you and her need to sit down and discuss this. Let her know that this issue is huge and that, while you want to get married to her one day, you both need to have a plan for dealing with her family, otherwise your relationship will never move forward from what it is now.
How enmeshed is she with her mom/sister? Would she ever go no contact? What boundaries need to be in place for you both to move forward with marriage?
There are some cultures where remitence is so common, it's expected. Some Latin cultures fall under this umbrella. Your girlfriend has probably already been sending her money to her mom/sister, but likely not close to $1k a month.
I think you and her need to sit down and discuss this. Let her know that this issue is huge and that, while you want to get married to her one day, you both need to have a plan for dealing with her family, otherwise your relationship will never move forward from what it is now.
How enmeshed is she with her mom/sister? Would she ever go no contact? What boundaries need to be in place for you both to move forward with marriage?
Your dad deserves to know the truth. While you may love her, your mom is trash. That is so fd up. Why did she even need to tell you? So you would be F'd up too? I'll tell you why I think she told you. She wants to take more shots at your dad and ruin your relationship with him because she can't stand you are getting along with hilm now. That is plain evil.
I'm gonna stop responding to you cause you are incredibly stupid, no nude feelings troll
I'm so sorry that happened to you. I know you said you don't wanna tell him yet, but the longer you wait, the harder it will get
So I should basically give up
Talk to him tell him thats a private valentine day gift not a Christmas gift and he needs to get you another gift. Family will want to know what he got you and you'll end up telling them nothing he got me nothing..
Tell him that will be a welcome to the family killer.
If he does not get you another then sounds like he is about the sex and not about a solid future.
I was reading this and was like “did I just come across my moms Reddit” because this is exactly like my dad too. But he’s unfortunately 65.
There are some cultures where remitence is so common, it's expected. Some Latin cultures fall under this umbrella. Your girlfriend has probably already been sending her money to her mom/sister, but likely not close to $1k a month.
I think you and her need to sit down and discuss this. Let her know that this issue is huge and that, while you want to get married to her one day, you both need to have a plan for dealing with her family, otherwise your relationship will never move forward from what it is now.
How enmeshed is she with her mom/sister? Would she ever go no contact? What boundaries need to be in place for you both to move forward with marriage?
There are some cultures where remitence is so common, it's expected. Some Latin cultures fall under this umbrella. Your girlfriend has probably already been sending her money to her mom/sister, but likely not close to $1k a month.
I think you and her need to sit down and discuss this. Let her know that this issue is huge and that, while you want to get married to her one day, you both need to have a plan for dealing with her family, otherwise your relationship will never move forward from what it is now.
How enmeshed is she with her mom/sister? Would she ever go no contact? What boundaries need to be in place for you both to move forward with marriage?
His masturbatory habits are none of your business. Stop having sex with this guy and either find a new place to online or get him to leave.
Different cultures. Different mindsets. Not trying to fix the world here.
Talk to a lawyer. Have him go stay with his family.
Things will get worse with him. Talk to family too tell them whats going on .
I've literally never seen a person on Coke, and yet my first thought was the exact same thing!
All you have to know is people with allergies aren't this excitable and fired up when having an allergic reaction.
Your dad deserves to know the truth. While you may love her, your mom is trash. That is so fd up. Why did she even need to tell you? So you would be F'd up too? I'll tell you why I think she told you. She wants to take more shots at your dad and ruin your relationship with him because she can't stand you are getting along with hilm now. That is plain evil.
Girl I can't even imagine having to deal with chaffing for years. Is there nothing a Doctor can do? As far as your bf you need to talk to him.
Underrated comment.