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First of all, you are not a gullible fool. It’s not foolish to trust someone you care about. Second, you are worthy and it likely was real for him too. For whatever reason, he decided to move by himself. That decision is about him, not any reflection on you.
How he broke up with no warning was selfish, and it’s ok to be angry at him. Please take good care of yourself. Take a nice walk or go to the gym, then order your favorite food, put on your favorite movie or show, and sit on your couch. You are strong and you will be ok.
Can’t really disagree with you there. I’m just saying that men are still going to be worried about that.
Oh and by the way did you comment a few hours ago? I saw a notification with the same text, but when i came to check the comment was gone
Never get couples therapy with your abuser.
Show more patience. She may also need counselling if she is fearful of the next step.
Was this a hook up first date or a first date for something with more potential?
If it was casual for hooking up/fwb thing, then it’s fine, I think, since there’s nothing serious going on.
If you’re dating in order to maybe enter a relationship, then I’d see it as a red flag since it shows the guy is way more interested in sex than in getting to know you as a person. This doesn’t mean he necessarily did anything wrong, but it could be a sign that this is not the right guy for you.
What does your gut feeling say? That should tell you the truth for you.
Basically im not good enough, but he wants to be my “special friend' and he can look/date for the one but im not allow to see anybody
Picked a winner.
Talking about an ex suddenly becoming single, in a relationship that's just under a year old, seems pretty fair to not be 100% secure at that moment and the fact that OP was already trying to lie by omission by not bringing up the convo subject, I get the feeling his response wasn't off of 1 mention or possibly not even as big as OP made it out to be.
He is probably trying to hide what happened to the original hence the replacement and doesn't want to upset his gf
2 things. 1) She got a nose job. Deviated septum surgery doesn't change the appearance. I wish people would stop lying about this/using it as an excuse to sound less vain. 2) It takes like a year for her new nose to look the way it's supposed to, but, if you're that bothered by this… Idk break up with her. Real attraction goes beyond looks. Something changing shattering your attraction means the attraction was all physical and that's not going to last no matter what.
Grow up , your and adult not a kid. If you don't like her leave the situation, if you can atleast have some respect for your father.
It sounds like he likes controlling you.
Go out with your own friends on NYE and have fun.
I couldn’t phantom how she could say such a thing to me after everything we’ve been through so I broke off the friendship. Going back to my shit childhood, I kind of made it a habit to dissociate from people quickly to avoid feeling unwanted and hurt and that’s why I left without working it out. But then I thought about it and through maybe it was worth at least talking things out for the sake of how long we’ve been friends, but it didn’t really go well. She didn’t want to call or meet up which I understood and gave her space for. But then she started holding calling over my head. The last day we talked, we got into a bit of an argument and I was out with my mother spending time with her. Jen said things such as; “I don’t recognize you anymore OP you used to be so sweet”, “I was going to call you tonight or Monday but you always hang up on people” (I don’t. I only ever have before in front of her when I was getting verbally abused by my mother and she brought that up to hurt me. I’ve never done it to her or anyone else), etc. We talked and calmed down and she slavered to call me so I rushed home with my mom and sat all night waiting. I started spam calling her after she started ignoring me and she didn’t pick up a single call. Then at 3 am, she texted me saying she was going to bed. She was going to bed while I was hyperventilating literally unable to to breathe and crying over her after being pulled away from a nice day with my mom. That day broke me and I decided to block her. That was in October and I had thought of her every damn day. I would cry constantly about her to my poor partner on the phone and started having nightmares about her. I went to a psychiatrist recently and got rediagnosed from bipolar to having BPD, CPTSD, ADHD, OCD, an eating disorder, and an anxiety disorder. I didn’t mention this earlier but me and her had both struggled a lot mentally and pushed each other to get better and seek help. So after getting this diagnosis, I felt a mix of very naked emotions. I felt so elated to finally know wtf has been so wrong with me for years but also a deep sorrow that I have so much to now go in to deal with. I decided that day to contant Jen to get some closure. I had written many long letters to cope previously but just sent a brief text asking for a call. We did just that and talked a lot out and I was very emotional and vulnerable, which she didn’t really reciprocate. But she did apologize for what she had done which she previously hadn’t, and agreed to work things out slowly. It’s been two or three weeks and she hasn’t tried to call or offer to meet up yet. We’ve been texting everyday but she’s gotten progressively more dry and now she hasn’t responded to me since the morning of the 4th. I’ve been going through the same panic attacks I had when we first stopped talking. I feel so gutted. It feels like sometimes I’m over her and moving in but then suddenly I feel like my world is falling apart. I’m in so much pain constantly and I just try to sleep all day and take sleeping pills at night so I don’t have to be conscious to think about what’s happening. I know I should leave her behind but it just hurts so much you know? The worst part is that she knows exactly what I’m feelings because she’s had men out her through shit like this EXACTLY and she would have seizures from stress. Please someone tell me, what do I do? How do I stop hurting? How do I forget?
You’re naturally anxious to know that he’ll miss you as much as you miss him. If he doesn’t, you can feel like it invalidates your feelings.
But nobody can promise he’ll miss you. People’s feelings are ultimately private. They may choose to share those feelings with us or to withhold them, but we have no rights over them.
If he doesn’t miss you, though, perhaps it doesn’t invalidate what you feel. Rather, it lets you know that someone you care for has other needs right now than to be in a relationship. Many people do better alone, sometimes for a season or sometimes for a lifetime, because they thrive on concentrating on the things that give them joy and develop them as people.
In any case, your job is to attend to your life, now, not his.
Well, not many people want to be in a relationship with someone they aren't attracted to anymore. However, a lot of people would not lose attraction to someone they are in love with over a little weight gain and not wearing make up or spending hours on their hair every day. It doesn't sound like your ex wanted a gf, it sounds like he wanted a blow up sex doll. I personally wouldn't continue with this current bf, your relationship is new and he's already trying to change you to fit what he really wants. Gross. Red flag.
Break up already!!
Thank you. I'll try not to.
Do you really want to be indelibly connected to this man by bringing a child into the world? I think he would be happier if he was with a 24 year old. I think you would be happier if he was too.
Thanks for the advice. How would you suggest I approach the conversation in a way that doesn't make her feel like she's being attacked in some way? I don't want to hurt her feelings or make her feel like I think she's taking advantage of me, or something. I feel like if I am too direct, it may give the wrong message or impression that I don't want to spoil her from time to time. I do want to, and I love it, I love making her happy, but IDK if I'm going crazy (hence the post title), but in my mind I'm like, “It's $20…why wouldn't you offer to pay for it, or why do you insist that I do?” if that makes any sense. Kind of like not feeling appreciated or recognized, almost, I guess. $20 isn't much at all, but the meaning behind it feels like so much more. IDK if it makes sense, sorry. I really appreciate your input, gives me some perspective I can work with. TY!
Its 3 months man, cut this stress out of your life.
Dude, it's gonna be a dealbreaker. It's bad (statistically) to have conflicting religious beliefs in a relationship, but it's majorly bad to have that gap dividing, and there's also nothing you can do, it's not your choice.
The sooner you admit it won't work and have that talk, the sooner you can get out there and find someone who isn't religious, or aligns with whatever you're down for.
Psychopaths are very adept at manipulation and hiding their true nature. The urge to sexually assault is just crazy.
Came here to say the same. What happens if he falls into a dark place again? Rejecting him upright could be dangerous because he can still find you as he knows where you live/work etc. If you are able to, gather as much as written/recorded evidence as possible but if you see each other again in person, he will be able to tell something’s off, which may trigger him further so I hope you can get something written from him like a text message.
You must be very confused right now, but don’t wait to be crystal clear about your feelings before you take action -I mean removing yourself. It is a big shock to find out that someone you trusted is not who you thought they were, so a part of you will want to think that it’s not as bad as it seems, maybe you’re making too big of a deal etc. Thinking too much before taking action will paralyse you and might put you in danger.
If you have good family relations or have a close friend apart from his circle, don’t try to handle everything yourself and let them know. Don’t try to protect his image or whatever. Yes, having intrusive thoughts doesn’t necessarily make somebody dangerous but it does become dangerous when they seriously consider taking action, which your bf did. That is the problem.
Look, nobody knows if he’s really changed or not. Nobody can say for sure if he’s harmless now. But continuing a relationship with a stalker/potential assaulter too big of a risk to take.
You don't know what you want…
Make a decision and problem solved.
Let me give you the advice or one of the scenarios that could happen.
Give the dog to friend for about 6 months, on-line with your girlfriend during those months, if she's intelligent enough, by getting to know you she'll probably decide to break up with you and leave.
Then if your friend is not attached to the dog you can get it back or go save another one from the shelter. Win win situation for everyone!
Mom here. Okay. When I have big life things, I write. I don’t think. I just start writing about the topic. If I start thinking then I’ll write what I think I should do. If I just write then the answers appear. I think you could find the right questions and words that you can use if you do this. Give it a shot. I’m a big believer in communicating and asking the hot questions. Could be a big lesson and serve you for a long time.
Well, there is one bitch in this story, however OP it isn’t you.
I guess two of you count the guy at the bar.
They're not boundaries or 'values', its a relationship contract and a ridiculously controlling one at that. Must see a nutritionist, must enroll in exercise classes 4 days a week, and Saturday morning relationship meetings complete with agenda? You're bonkers if you think thats fair.
No, genuinely confused. I don't want to cross boundaries or make him uncomfortable. I see all the tragic posts about women being in love with gay men and don't want to overstep.
You need therapy.
I'm not attacking you, I just mean that if you ghost her she probably won't want to be friends again. But it could be that you're upset with how she handled the confession so YOU don't really want to be friends. Either way the point stands that a text now will smooth the way for future reconciliation if that's what you want.
Your girlfriend is an idiot. She has a concerning lack of empathy. Don’t be with someone who thinks you have an incestuous relationship with your disabled sister. That accusation is outrageous.
Does she think nurses and CNAs are having a sexual relationship with their patients? Disturbing. You deserve better.
You’re essentially a medical professional when you’re taking care of your sister, the girlfriend needs an education into the importance of care taking and stop sexualizing everything.
Call the police and get a restraining order. This is not normal behaviour.
FWB relationships are a bad idea. Over time they damage your ability to form real relationships in the future. Besides do you honestly have sex with someone and have no emotions towards them?
You should come clean to her, but be clear that you are not sure yet
Why does this sound like a romance movie? Lol
Seriously though, if you have to hold back your feelings to protect a relationship, you then have to question the strength and authenticity of the relationship. That goes for friends, family, partners.
Although it might be naked, i would tell her. If she likes you back, then hey, your winning. If not, then you have to prepare for your lives going separate ways, or accommodating your own feelings and moving on. That being said, i personally dont think its possible to lose all feelings for someone, no matter who it is or how long for, once you've had those feelings of love, they never go away, even if they get smaller over time. Now think of the emotional turmoil that will cause for you, if she gets a boyfriend or brings a guy back to your apartment or something, you just have to sit there and bite your tongue whilst your heart hurts and the jealousy and envy hurts even more (i say this from experience btw).
Choose whether you want to love her loudly (the honest but naked way) or love her quietly (the dishonest and painful way).
(Also as an additional point; although our friends can have a good judge of character about ourselves and potential partners, we have all fallen for the wrong person atleast once in our lives and its not up to our friends to make those decisions for us. Its their job to be there for your whether it works out or not. Thats your journey and your decision to make)
Long hair to a pixie cut is a significant change, not a “simple” hairstyle change as if she decided to just part it on another side.
Your dating, not married. You have literally no ohligation to share a single penny with them.
“Oh don’t worry about him! He’s just an old guy over twice my age that believes we are still kind of dating. No, I won’t cut him out of my life, he’s WAY too important to me.”
Your bf deserves better.
I didn't say anywhere that I wouldn't pay for utility and maintenance. But paying for that and the rent and having gf as a landlord is too much for me and I am sad it had come to that
Are you asking for advice or permission?
If you truly feel it's not good for you and if this truly comes from deep down yourself and you know what you want and that separating will get you there then do what you have to do and stop stringing her along.
But if you want to stay with her and this is just a vague idea of 'missing out' on something you can't even name for yourself, then think naked what you expect your outcome to be and where this comes from.
But it's your decision and the way you write it here sounds more like you don't really want to separate but feel you have to. Where does this feeling come from? Did it truly come from yourself or is it just an idea from how you perceive your peers?
You need to do some soul-searching what you really want and why. I get a feeling that you already have too much outside influences and don't need more of that but instead sit down and think about this for yourself and ask yourself what you truly want and what you truly know will happen if you leave her.
Not what could maybe happen or you hope will happen or other people tell you might happen, but what'll truly and definitely be happening if you make this decision and if that's what you want.
Great to know which throwaway account I can block
Start telling him that you don't seem to be the right person to help him. He doesn't get any better after talking to you, even after hours of trying.
He told me he is not able to deal with this due to financial reasons.
But:
He claims he can’t afford to fix it due to an upcoming trip He needs to fix his car Get a better avalanche beacon Safer snowboard
His priorities are so backwards.
I'd be concerned about that long term… This is a reality of life. Sometimes you have to spend your money and things you simply don't want to. It sucks, for sure. But that is a price tag in adulthood.
You have a gum disease and three cavities creating such a foul smell… Yet, you're worried about buying a 'safer snowboard' (meaning he already has a snowboard).
Additionally:
Fast forward three months: I have been constantly complaining and I got him to make an appointment for a cleaning/checkup. He missed it and couldn’t get hold of them to reschedule. Eventually I got frustrated waiting for him to figure it out and found a place that would do a cleaning and inspection for $100.
You're becoming his Mother.
Its a nice gesture to do those things, but the only way these things are done should not become your responsibility to execute.
I would be concerned about this long term…
I agree that she maybe feels insecure now that she's working part-time. I was very annoyed at all the “but what do you do all day” when I was a SAHM. Nobody ever actually wanted to listen to the full list of household and childcare chores performed round the clock – the question was purely to emphasise that I was freeloading. I never failed to point out that in fact my partner was setting up his own business and not yet making any money out of it, so we were all living off my unemployment benefit.
She might actually regret cutting her hours, why not ask how she feels about it?
At one point my partner started bragging about his contributions, I would immediately point out what I contributed, and that in terms of hours I definitely put in more work and that if he were to pay professionals to do all the housework, childcare, teaching the kids to speak English (we're in France), it would cost a bl00dy fortune. That shut him down pretty quickly.
How am I pushing?
It's understandable that you're feeling a bit insecure and unsure about your girlfriend's behavior. However, it's important to remember that attraction to others, even in a committed relationship, is normal and doesn't necessarily mean anything more than finding someone physically appealing.
That being said, if this behavior is making you uncomfortable or causing you to question your girlfriend's feelings for you, it's okay to bring it up with her in a non-accusatory way. You can express that you noticed her staring at the same guy a few times and ask if there was something that caught her attention or if she found him attractive.
It's important to approach the conversation from a place of curiosity and openness rather than accusation or defensiveness. It's possible that there was nothing more to her behavior than a passing glance, and having an open and honest conversation can help clarify any misunderstandings and ease any insecurities you may be feeling.
Ultimately, trust is an important aspect of any relationship, and it's up to you to decide whether this behavior is something that you can move past and continue to trust your girlfriend, or if it's a dealbreaker for you.
Dude wtf?! This marriage will last 4 mnths
FFS She didn’t explicitly say not to video tape us having sex and email it to her parents, so it’s all good?
Seriously man? This is the most pathetic ass excuse you’re trying to give. You were an asshole and knowingly went against what you knew were her wishes.
OP’s gf, if you’re reading these : find someone better who won’t perform experiments on you that cross your boundaries. Because he’s going to do this again.
Yeah, I'm not one for jumping to the dump him part but in this case, dump him. That's grim and the fact he thinks you're being unreasonable is just foul.
So what? Why should the guy get married when the judge ultimately gets to decide if his prenup is over-favoring one party or not?
Whats the evidence & whats his explanation?
I'd also have something of a problem with the opinion he apparently has of me… Also, that's what prenups are made for.
I mean, you’re allowed to want what you want out of a relationship and you deserve happiness, but you also need to be aware that the lifestyle you want isn’t exactly normal, and the vast majority of people you meet just aren’t going to understand it.
I have no idea if your partner is cool with this or if he’s going to be cool with this, but in the future if things don’t work out, you should be leading with this when you’re looking for partners. You’re in an alternative lifestyle; you’re looking for men who are in the same lifestyle. That way you’re not endlessly waiting for your partner to play a role nobody told him he was supposed to be playing, and he’s not blindsided when you tell him you want to stay at home and raise babies while he works.
Yes, OP, please, he is not going to change, so you are looking at a life where you'll be berated into submission at every disagreement – is that really how you want to online?
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You’re not listening to what the comment you replied to is saying. She’s not comfortable sending videos. The fact that her doing so would make you happy doesn’t mean she’s suddenly comfortable doing it. Like u/BitchInBoots66 said – you’re not a victim and you’re obviously not compatible. Stop nagging people to do things that make them uncomfortable just because it makes you happy.