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Nope. You were at best inappropriate. Delete. Block. Move on.
Pro Tip: Don’t put yourself in a position to be tempted. No ‘drinks with colleagues’ if you’re attracted to one. No texts or websites you would be embarrassed by if your partner found out. Being loyal isn’t always easy, but a clear conscience is priceless.
i’m 24f, my boyfriend is 39m. we’ve been together for 2 years and at this point, this is our only fight. i’m the same way. ultra attracted to him and want to bone constantly. we currently only have sex about 1-2 times per month, so i know how you feel. it’s hot not to take it personally when your partner doesn’t show sexual interest in you. and he needs to realize that. i used to say the same kind of things, not realizing how much it would hurt his feelings. but i’ve learned it’s a VERY sensitive topic for men. it can be very embarrassing as well. makes him feel as if you a belittling his manhood. hopefully he just needs some time and space. be gracious and give him that. if he reaches a point where he is willing to talk about things, have the conversation. is the desire gone, or is it a physical matter? regardless, he should understand your wants and needs, but also realize that this is very sensitive to him. be careful with your words. i hope things work out
Is this post real? Yuck.
As a woman who was the “friend”…
I honestly wished I had known the real truth. He kept telling me he was separated and moving towards a divorce. He was definitely not. He still was living with the wife like it was no big deal. Each time I confronted him saying that I thought he was lying, he'd say he wasn't lying. It wasn't until the wife spoke to me that I realized I really was the other woman.
I never got into another relationship like that again.
Because some people can’t be happy unless they are creating drama.
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ugh ok dude I’m trying to ask for help about talking to my boyfriend about boundaries, I’m not sure what you’re getting at other than it’s incredibly weird
Not a harmless joke. You body shamed him. Making a joke about something he can’t change. Seems women always degrade men by commenting on height or penis size.
You could try writing it in the form of a letter. Of course, be near when she reads it.
Yes, but they are a team and need to work through it together. Just because he’s insecure about it and it bothers him doesn’t mean OP should throw her hands up and say well you deal with this. I mean she can do that but it’s not the way to a healthy relationship.
But also, society has accepted these norms, so I get shit for it if I ever mention it. I've just accepted the loss at this point and just do my best to ignore it.
I think I threw up a little in my mouth.
As soon as it’s ‘infidelities’ plural I don’t feel it’s a viable relationship – it’s just something that you’re putting up with for some reason. Perhaps because, when your lives are closely entangled, breaking up will entail a lot of change that you don’t feel ready for. So why not try revenge sex for some short- term relief? Well obviously you can do it, but it just makes you like him, which is quite depressing. Ditch him and start the work of building a better , more fulfilling life.
A few “made up answers” I have been given are “I’m just tired from work” “Okay I’ll try for you since you’re important to me” proceeds to make absolutely no change or effort. “ My past relationships never talked about things like this” which I understand and which is the whole reason I have been so patient and trying to slowly but surely teach him healthy communication and expression, but it feels like I’m talking to an actual wall the whole time” “ I don’t want to talk right now, later”. These are some I can remember off the top of my head.
I have thought about just telling him everything in a letter and give it to him and let him know to read it in a serious manner. I also have no problem leaving if I have to, but the sucky thing is we just renewed our lease together for another year in December. I don’t want to financially set him back either because is living together has significantly improved our finances and I don’t want to mess that up for him. Even if I were to give him a notice that I am leaving. I would hate to break a lease as it would be on my record and I am least likely to get a good apartment in the future.
She’s insecure.
I’m just laughing because every time you have ‘trust’ in your post it autocorrected to thrust ?? or maybe that’s what you meant ?
Don't think it is a coincidence that you “had” to move in with him and that he just happens to have zero respect for your boundaries. Would he still want you to live with him if you decided you wanted to sleep on the sofa and have no more sexual contact with him?
I don’t know why you moved in with him knowing this about him.
Is there an empty room in the house that all of his stuff can go into?
Else. Set a timer and tackle it with him for 30’min at a time for a few hours each day til it’s put away.
So now you know how the people you associate with feel about drunk driving.
You're the one who is correct in this case, if that wasn't abundantly clear.
You mean your ex boyfriend right? It’s been 3 months and he has the audacity to ask this, he’s gross. Dump him and tell her he asked this and to stay away from him.
That’s not true, many colleagues of mine enjoy romantic lives as well as have partners, yes with hours like this. It takes special people but they DO exist.
Thank you
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