I think the problem with situations like these isn't that people don't believe it was assault and assume it was consensual, it's that a lot of people ( not just women) don't really take the necessary precautions to stay safe when drinking and take no accountability for that.
You are out now, and that is half — if not more — the battle. Abusers are often conniving and manipulative. From what you wrote, he has those behaviors. The only way you can get out entirely is to go no contact right now. Focus on you, your needs and safety. Forget about him. Please seek help from a domestic violence hotline or services in your area. You got this. You can do it. You deserve better.
Nope I'm done as soon as you said he has pictures of MINORS??? get away from this man omg!!
I think the problem with situations like these isn't that people don't believe it was assault and assume it was consensual, it's that a lot of people ( not just women) don't really take the necessary precautions to stay safe when drinking and take no accountability for that.
You are out now, and that is half — if not more — the battle. Abusers are often conniving and manipulative. From what you wrote, he has those behaviors. The only way you can get out entirely is to go no contact right now. Focus on you, your needs and safety. Forget about him. Please seek help from a domestic violence hotline or services in your area. You got this. You can do it. You deserve better.