And this is exactly why he is dating someone soooo much younger than him. You're easier to control and less likely to be wise to his bs. Break up with him
New or worsening depression, anxiety, or panic attacks
Congrats. You’re obsessing over a big nothingburger and failing to associate that the thing that is supposedly to be helping you, might be making things worse.
Relax. Your bf is okay, because he knows you’re too innocent and self-critical to ever intentionally do something morally wrong.
I certainly think having another ex pass away recently is behind this.
In regards to it being inappropriate etc, I would have an honest and open conversation with your partner and say that you really want to have some closure and ensure things are cordial between you and your ex because you now have this sense of needing that since your other ex passed away.
I think once death becomes involved it can really make us want peace with people we have uneasy relationships with. Whether that be a catch up and never speak again or not, getting that peace and feeling that peace really does help us as people.
I think the BBC adaptation of War & Peace really shows this, and I would highly recommend watching. It stars Paul Dano and James Norton if you do look for it. I don't mean to promote a show in response to your post but after seeing it, as a very emotional person (which also means negative and hateful emotions) I really do seek a form of peace with people I used to hate, whether that's just an internal thing and I don't involve them or if it is reaching out.
And this is exactly why he is dating someone soooo much younger than him. You're easier to control and less likely to be wise to his bs. Break up with him
If a man were to spit into his GF’s face I’d tell her to run and save herself. I give you the same advice, bro. Run, bro. Run.
Lexapro, rare side effects include:
An increase in suicidal thoughts or actions
Violent behavior
New or worsening depression, anxiety, or panic attacks
Congrats. You’re obsessing over a big nothingburger and failing to associate that the thing that is supposedly to be helping you, might be making things worse.
Relax. Your bf is okay, because he knows you’re too innocent and self-critical to ever intentionally do something morally wrong.
Read the last line, he doesn't do it around his family at all.
I certainly think having another ex pass away recently is behind this.
In regards to it being inappropriate etc, I would have an honest and open conversation with your partner and say that you really want to have some closure and ensure things are cordial between you and your ex because you now have this sense of needing that since your other ex passed away.
I think once death becomes involved it can really make us want peace with people we have uneasy relationships with. Whether that be a catch up and never speak again or not, getting that peace and feeling that peace really does help us as people.
I think the BBC adaptation of War & Peace really shows this, and I would highly recommend watching. It stars Paul Dano and James Norton if you do look for it. I don't mean to promote a show in response to your post but after seeing it, as a very emotional person (which also means negative and hateful emotions) I really do seek a form of peace with people I used to hate, whether that's just an internal thing and I don't involve them or if it is reaching out.