If your instincts are telling you to get out, go. Never continue a relationship with someone you simply no longer trust. It doesn't matter how much they swear nothing happened, the suspicions will always be there and it will destroy your mental health. Go. Now.
No one is saying he can’t have preferences. It’s just dumb that he started dating a girl with tattoos and is now saying “idk if I wanna keep going with this if you get more” as if he didn’t make a conscious decision to date a girl who doesn’t fit a strong preference of his
Don’t be a doormat in this situation. She isn’t in charge, you BOTH are! Ask her point blank: Is she trying to blow up the relationship? If she is looking for an excuse, living with kids full time isn’t for the weak-maybe she doesn’t WANT to have your kids there full time. Step-parenting is a very hot mess most of the time and probably wrecks most 2nd marriages. Good luck, you are going to need it.
How old is the cousin?
If your instincts are telling you to get out, go. Never continue a relationship with someone you simply no longer trust. It doesn't matter how much they swear nothing happened, the suspicions will always be there and it will destroy your mental health. Go. Now.
I would press pause on the wedding until SO talks if it were me.
I hate pedophiles, rapists, and their apologists.
My boyfriend never told me this… But he was trying to reassure me telling me his father is a changed man and I have nothing to worry about.
Your boyfriend is an apologist for his father, a pedophile and a rapist.
No one is saying he can’t have preferences. It’s just dumb that he started dating a girl with tattoos and is now saying “idk if I wanna keep going with this if you get more” as if he didn’t make a conscious decision to date a girl who doesn’t fit a strong preference of his
Don’t be a doormat in this situation. She isn’t in charge, you BOTH are! Ask her point blank: Is she trying to blow up the relationship? If she is looking for an excuse, living with kids full time isn’t for the weak-maybe she doesn’t WANT to have your kids there full time. Step-parenting is a very hot mess most of the time and probably wrecks most 2nd marriages. Good luck, you are going to need it.