oof it sounds like he's just kind of an idiot and put his foot in his mouth. I'm sure he regrets his words immensely lol. A lot of men also really can't understand the absolutely wild changes that happen to your body throughout pregnancy and childbirth. They just think it's some kind of womens maternal thing thats easy to accept when its really fucking not. I think it would be a good idea to sit down during a neutral time (IE not when you're about to have sex for the first time since giving birth) and explain to him everything thats going on.
I totally understand where you're coming from and its so hard. The changes happen too fast and you don't really have time to even comprehend them, especially once the baby comes. It's important to let your partner know how you're feeling.
it’s just cleavage lol where are you going on dates? a church? if my spouse doesn’t like something i want to wear and feel comfortable wearing, he is free to tell me. doesn’t mean i’m not wearing it lol just like i can’t force him to not wear something.
He mentioned it in another comment further down.
Usually break
From your comments, you're twisting his words and playing mind games. Stop.
oof it sounds like he's just kind of an idiot and put his foot in his mouth. I'm sure he regrets his words immensely lol. A lot of men also really can't understand the absolutely wild changes that happen to your body throughout pregnancy and childbirth. They just think it's some kind of womens maternal thing thats easy to accept when its really fucking not. I think it would be a good idea to sit down during a neutral time (IE not when you're about to have sex for the first time since giving birth) and explain to him everything thats going on.
I totally understand where you're coming from and its so hard. The changes happen too fast and you don't really have time to even comprehend them, especially once the baby comes. It's important to let your partner know how you're feeling.
it’s just cleavage lol where are you going on dates? a church? if my spouse doesn’t like something i want to wear and feel comfortable wearing, he is free to tell me. doesn’t mean i’m not wearing it lol just like i can’t force him to not wear something.
THIS!!! My very first thought. I think he is druggy f her in order to rape and violate her.
The r/scams sub is eye-opening.