Ugh. I had to stop reading. Sarah is spot on. Its only been 8 months and she is already isolating you. You need to take a step back and make an honest assessment of where you see this thing going. Cathy sounds kind of needy and self absorbed. Like her world is always falling apart and she’s depending on you to fix things for her. That’s a lot of responsibility.
You need to send yourself screenshots of everything you've found and then go to a lawyer. After that hand your husband some divorce papers with zero explanation. I bet he'd then lie and gaslight you about his cheating.
Your gf is being insecure. It’s fine to go with your friend.
Depends on a number of factors, personality type, what kind of work you do, etc.
Ugh. I had to stop reading. Sarah is spot on. Its only been 8 months and she is already isolating you. You need to take a step back and make an honest assessment of where you see this thing going. Cathy sounds kind of needy and self absorbed. Like her world is always falling apart and she’s depending on you to fix things for her. That’s a lot of responsibility.
The relationship is already ruined
You need to send yourself screenshots of everything you've found and then go to a lawyer. After that hand your husband some divorce papers with zero explanation. I bet he'd then lie and gaslight you about his cheating.
Have more self respect. That's about the only advice you need here.