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Well duh she doesn’t have to, but further insight into these “harmless” messages could be probative of prior bad acts— ALWAYS a relevant issue when discussing cheating.
You say that “nothing is wrong” yet are clearly married to a leech who has no intention of contributing to the relationship.
These are actual signs of a “bad person” and need to be addressed.
Your mistake was enabling this selfish behavior for years.
Nah it’s not ok to be offended. He’s being more responsible than you are tbh ??♀️
Nothing wrong with doing things on your own but if the opportunity to do something together comes up why wouldn't you want to do it together?
My ex done this to me ? my ex slept with said girl …..
You're accusing him of cheating because he searched for someone on IG? Am I understanding?
Doesn't sound like flirting to me. Calling a spouse your “partner” isn't weird. Nor is making eye contact with someone or walking out at the same time as someone.
And also he's married so keep your feelings to yourself if you like him. No one likes a homewrecker, and even if he does in any way have feelings for you, you shouldn't encourage that.
That was a really shitty thing to say. BF (interesting that he doesn't get a name) doesn't need to “be like Connor”. He should be himself. If you want a BF like Connor then date Connor.
Dude break up with her, coerce her my ass, she could have said no and blocked but she did it because she wanted to.
When i have topped i think its nice to see their reaction. Like all my feedback for what im doing that works or doesn’t work is gonna be on my partners face
She kinda groomed you…you’re 19. You need to go sling some dick and experience life. Don’t get married right now.
There is no other answer! OP just can’t keep something this big from her rock of a husband.
Also OP, you just sound like a lovely person, the way you have described your accident and the aftermath… you sound like someone who has handled a tragic situation with grace and an oversized amount of gratitude. I just want really good things for you. Be honest with your husband—the rest is up to him.
Don't give up on loaning money in a marriage. If you find the right person to spend your life with, it will be safe to do. I will give you the same advice that was given to me, keep your own bank account, and have your income deposited into it. Hubby and I have our own income and savings as well as joint savings. It is possible to protect your finances while still sharing them with you. That said, you are not in the wrong for wanting your money back.
You were used. If she was seriously thinking about transitioning for as long as you believe, then she would have done the research to find out how much it would cost and should have started saving up to pay for it herself, this would have also provided time for the personal development she is now insisting on.
Don't give up on loaning money in a marriage. If you find the right person to spend your life with, it will be safe to do. I will give you the same advice that was given to me, keep your own bank account, and have your income deposited into it. Hubby and I have our own income and savings as well as joint savings. It is possible to protect your finances while still sharing them with you. That said, you are not in the wrong for wanting your money back.
You were used. If she was seriously thinking about transitioning for as long as you believe, then she would have done the research to find out how much it would cost and should have started saving up to pay for it herself, this would have also provided time for the personal development she is now insisting on.
You fortunately have some biological time. So to speak.
Enjoy your time together, but make it clear you want kids. Give the relationship a break clause; should you both not agree in future.
It could also be a way of her wanting out of the relationship, but not wanting to be the person to break up.
Think of it from SIL’s end. It sounds like OP made a scene at her family’s wedding. She’s said some things about her that may or may not be justified. Now she’s inviting her to an event to reach out. She doesn’t know OP isn’t drinking anymore. Personally if someone I knew got pass out drunk at my sister’s wedding, I would talk about them
Yeah he didn't tell her because he knew it was wrong. I mean he even said he thought it was inappropriate so hid it… confused why that's been straight up ignored.
I would take a stab in the dark that husband fancies the best friend here and doesn't know what's straight up creepy, assuming she doesn't fancy him back. Or it's mutual.
Watch the movie Comet. There’s a scene that mirrors your scenario, but instead it’s what he says when he is proposing. When talking about his love for her, he ends up focusing on himself and it causes her to walk away/fall out of love with him.
Why would you do that? I don't even like Charlie now. It's like you meant to show it off like a stupid teenager. So gross.
I would tell him he first needs to find another job. I would also tell him that you refuse to be a step mother to any child he has with someone else so if she keeps the baby he can go live with her.
No experience with adderall so no idea if it could cause what he is claiming.
But at the end of the day, you opened a can of worms, and now you both have to deal with the fallout of it.
Please stay safe. You need to get you and your dog away from her in whatever manner it takes. Also you need to get the house situation sorted. Seek legal advice from a professional.
Honestly you could file police charges for the threats of violence and animal cruelty. Possibly get a restraining order against her. If she makes threats of self harm have police do a wellness check
Just divorce already. You will end up with half and hurt him just like you want to. Win win.
It depends where OP is based, some countries (like the UK) everything will go through your doctor to get a referral to any other care … you can't always just go straight to other people
So tell us how it went when you profusely apologized to your girlfriend?
Your post makes it clear you don't want this. Don't force yourself to do it to make her happy.
He didn't really say one way or the other. I think he knew they were wrong, which prompted him to share.
Thanks for the heads up. He's had anger management treatment in the past, so I would be on guard.
That's disgusting. Make a report to the police!!
Sounds responsible to me. What's the problem? You shouldn't really have one with it.
How’s your head game?
Many women cannot climax solely from PIV intercourse.
Being good with your tongue goes a long way.
This really is more of personal morals rather than anything. As a mom, I personally don't tolerate associating with people who mistreat their kids. Because of my personal experiences and cuz I generally don't feel there's enough people advocating for kids. This goes for deadbeat dads and moms. So really you don't need other people's perspective because the decision is personal.
I'd suggest putting yourself in his ex's (and son's) situation: you're trying to get your child's father to be an active parent and show your child the love and attention they deserve. You find out that he's distracting himself with a strictly sexual relationship with a woman who's also a single mom (who should understand how nude this is). He's putting more effort into being a fwb than he is being a father. How would you feel?
If you really want to apologize, you can apologize for yelling but also make it clear that what she did was unacceptable in a friend and you want no further contact with her.
Depends on your background or your country (I still know Countries where you need to find a reason to win more money during the divorce) I guess. If you look at op's posts you'll see that something is definetly off with him.
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My boyfriend I've been dating since high school cheated on me with a random guy last week! I was looking for a photo and notice he had a random dick pic in his gallery. So, I went to his Reddit and saw so many messages with both women and men of all sorts of gender identities.
(In the past I did see him sexting people and he said it was just for pleasure instead of watching porn, hes never met or spoken to anyone on the phone, in person, video chay, only text. I understood the different feeling you get with sexting vs. Watching porn and said that was ok)
I noticed a recent message from last week saying, “I had a great time”. I opened it and saw he got sucked off by this random guy. My boyfriend told the guy he was discreet bi, he's looking for some head. Apparently this is the 2nd time meeting with him. They wore masks and he never saw the guys face, just felt him sucking him off. I confronted him about it and he said he's addicted to sex. He has no emotional connection to him, he said will never do that again, I locked his cock in a cage and I have the keys. He deleted his Reddit, Twitter, IG, Snapchat. He isn't allowed to see his friends after work (excuse he used to meet the guy). He feels disgusted with himself and what he's done to me.
I told him my feelings, cried, I feel betrayed and have no idea what to do about it. I can't trust him, and he's all I have. He's willing to work to gain back my trust but how can I do this?
He has already told her how he feels about it. She has no intention of stopping nor should she it’s her body. Ball is in his court, is there another option I’m not aware of?
I’m actually the opposite. I wouldn’t move my entire life without some commitment from the other side. If he can’t do that, is he even able to commit to living with someone and make any compromises?
He doesn't “need to cooperate.” He “needs to cooperate or [insert consequences].” You need to figure out what those consequences will be and make it clear to them that that's the decision for him to make. But you cannot force him to choose to be a good father or partner if he doesn't want to be and he's okay with the consequences of not being one.
im saying that you have every right to feel the way you do and you need to discuss it with her. I woudnt say youre controlling for not wanting her to essentially go on a date with another guy. Thats not okay. Im sure thats how she will swing it. If you bring this topic up and shes going anyways, then I would say she doesnt value your relationship as much as you do. Its up to you what you do from there, but expect more dates with other guys in the future if you allow this.
How can fainting make you lose trust in someone especially when it is the worst news you could hear? If that’s all it takes then there wasn’t much trust there to begin with.
i have posted an update response of what’s been going on. thank you.
You knew of his existence for 2+ years or have been close to him for 2+ years? What are you asking strangers' thoughts for at this point? If you can't communicate with someone that is exclusive with you, then you are in a dead end relationship. Take this time to discuss things with your partner. I don't tell everything about my life on a list unless it is brought up. But I am in a relationship where we can discuss anything to everything.
The worry there is that he finds a woman who will tollerate it – someone already hurt whom he will only hurt further.
Ugh I'm no parent but how the heck is this cringe or disgusting it's literally an image of his baby ? ? and if he thinks this way I'd hate to think what will happen when you ask him 1 to be by your side during birth and 2 literally whipping a baby's butt after they poop ?
I don't know it's confusing as hell lol
I will never get a tattoo for a S/O. I have lots of tattoos but that will never be one.
So, the answer is, never.
Dude you’re 20 and you’ve been together two years. Don’t get a tattoo for her. Maybe if you get married and 50 years later, then maybe.
Two things – first, your relationship doesn't sound remotely healthy, your fiancee has issues that she needs to address, if you think it's worth it you could also try couples counselling but only you will know if that's an option. Second, why does no-one on reddit seem to have any security set up on their phone?
So, for context, this guy has cheated on you at least twice, right? That's not acceptable. He s also gaslighting you at every opportunity, blaming you for HIS actions. Don't let him treat you like that. This is not how you want to live…and it shouldn't be someone you want to spend the rest of your life with because if he's doing this NOW? He will only get worse after marriage. You need to take a step back and rethink your relationship. You're too young to settle for such trash that's being tossed at you by this guy.
Yes very happy and she also and not long just over 1,5 months
We go out lots of times but we just get tired very fast and when there are more people around we have more energy together and we talk more to eachother and are more active and annoying/cursing eachother for fun
Firm believer in don’t ask questions you don’t want an answer to
She was venting. She didn’t need you to solve her problem. I’d just stop checking in with her or making suggestions about food. She doesn’t want your help.
If it’s a dealbreaker for you that she doesn’t cook, break up. It would be for me if kids were in the mix and they weren’t getting fed but she is an adult. She isn’t going to starve herself to death.
No it is a phobia it’s called Misophonia. Him not being able to control the anger is very much a problem, but it really is something people struggle with. I will feel my blood start to boil when there is a sound that irritates me. I’ve learned how to suppress and manage it. He absolutely should not be taking it out on her and she has every right to not be okay with it, but it is a weird problem that does exist and can be manageable so one is not constantly a raging asshole.
Stepbro I’m stuck
Bullseye ?! The no intercourse is totally understandable but not messaging first does seem a tad excessive.
Reread what you just wrote, especially that last paragraphs and then put yourself in his shoes.
Why wouldn’t he be happy the relationship is over? He gets to find a partner that actually wants to be around him.
Seriously though, how often were you guys being intimate, it could honestly be as simple as that.
mark sounds like he’s cheating on you honestly . like why is he stressing about it unless he’s projecting.
You can’t do anything. Your parents are failing her as they failed you sadly.
Its not just that he left his wife when she was sick… He also lied to you about his relationship and hid the fact that he was married. How can you trust him again? What if he lied to you about other things and you don't know? Do NOT marry this man.
I am Easter European too, all I can say is be careful around westerners because many people there have no loyalty to their spouse and family and have a weird “dont owe you anything” mentality. So if you man is like this, run, he will be a terrible husband.
It's actually a great approach. My husband enjoys it a lot more than I do, so now the only one getting anything in there is him. Which is great for both of us xD
She is allowed to have friends
I understand you. It's a nude time and I hope you she didn't isolate you from friends so you have support. You need it.
try to detach yourself emotionally from her, play the role of the husband who tries to fix it to stall for time. In the meantime put everything in order so she can't take your kids out of the country.
You're hurting and that is completely understandable and correct, but you will suffer more if you don't take action now. Over time you will lose either through manipulation from her side or she takes action.
Take control of your life back try to focus on that to make you feel better
You need to quit making excuses for his abusive behavior. The hurting part of you is the correct part. Don't talk yourself into accepting manipulative and abusive behavior.
In the “go out and have a drink or two with a stranger and come home to your husband every night” kind of thing.
What? Sounds like a recipe for disaster. Go out and tease guys and then leave them high and dry. No guy would take that well. Except maybe you.
For months he refused to speak to his partner about his feelings. He instead chose to withhold affection. He made it clear in his message. Cleanliness can be your love language and he can still be an abuser.
Updateme!
Wtf kind of boyfriend tells you he's sad because he misses his ex? Yuck. You deserve better sis
Do you understand how awful this sounds? Please have a little more self respect than this.
How does he even know that this is something that she would be interested in??
I mean…swingers have been around for ages. And with divorce so stigmatized or outright unavailable in the past, people probably had a lot more “discreet understandings” going on in what appeared to be “monogamous” marriages than we realize. (And of course there was regular infidelity that was never agreed upon and as hurtful as ever, but that’s not what I’m talking about.) But while how we talk about it and the openness with which we talk about it has changed in recent years, the concepts aren’t new at all.
You LEAVE Jesus wayyyy tooo damn soon in a relationship for this much bullshit.
You don't need it and he's a trash person that should get binned. There is no alternative answer here unless u want to get into a seriously abusive relationship with this guy.
He “felt so bad for her”, but has literally acknowledged sleeping around with other people behind her back? Are you sure he felt bad for her? It doesn't sound like he was helping her at all, it sounds like he was ruining his life.
His narrative with his Instagram photos seems like they've been put there to try to convince you he won't cheat on you. Otherwise, they wouldn't have come with the attached description of why he never did it before. People who post pictures of them literally marrying their spouses sometimes still cheat, they don't generally care what they look like live.
It really does sound like he's lovebombing you and your flatmate is the one to trust about this.
You know what you need to do. Yes you’ve no evidence that they’re having sex again, but it’s likely they are. Even so, deleting messages, changing his name and texting him at all ever is a huge mast of red flags. If she respected you or this relationship at all, she would have cut contact to work on it and try undo her wrongs with you.
Maybe the fact you’re so reluctant to leave is giving her reason to do whatever the hell she wants without repercussion.
I hope you manage to leave this time, it will be rough but after time your only regret will be that you didn’t do it sooner. Fuck what others think of her, I get not wanting to drag her because you care about her, that’s human. But maybe a part of you is wary about it because of the added embarrassment it would bring to you if you then stayed together for a second time. Stand up for yourself and what you deserve, because this isn’t it.
I can’t remember the quote now, but it’s helped me from time to time and is basically, ‘if telling the truth about someone hurts them, then that’s on them to rectify.’ Protect YOURSELF.
it wont get better. it will get worse and you'll start seeking solace in your room constantly to escape his mess and the relationship will deteriorate. if he is not receptive to a conversation about him needing to change his habits, you may need to consider moving out or breaking up
“Sorry, I misheard it for 'going out with friends'. So, are you going to fight in the war and aren't sure to come back alive?”
Ask him if he’d allow you to attend an appointment with HIS dr.
Tell him how you feel, that his remarks are disgusting, that he’s not wanted in the delivery room and that you are having serious reservations about your relationship. Also, show him this post.
Cheating hurts. Stop bringing it up.
Someone help how tf do u make men see reason.
Don't blame it on gender. Some people are reasonable and can reasoned with and some aren't. Some will accept facts laid before them and some won't. Some will think and behave logically and some won't. I'm not one for hanging around with unreasonable and illogical people. Too frustrating.
He's shown you that his behaviour is not changing. You're pregnant with his child and he's still acting like this!? Imagine what it's going to be like when your baby is born. Do you want your child growing up around parents who fight and a father that has no respect for you? I know it's nude to accept because you want to have a family, but this won't be a happy family based on your BF's actions
It sounds like she is having an extreme emotional reaction or being manipulative. Only you know her intimately enough to know which it could be. Either way you should recommend therapy for her. This is not a healthy way to deal with issues.
Get some therapy!
1 you're definitely nuts. Reincarnation smh. Anyway. 2 giving away my animal is grounds for leaving someone. 3 it's unimaginable that the friend won't give him back. Unreal.
He’s like the “I’ve tried nothing, and nothing works” meme.
The frustration I also had was that she more sees the monetary value of what I have her than the gifts themselves. The money doesn't matter much to me
And you still want him?
I'm asian, she's black, we live in California. Its enough that it turns heads when we hold hands in public so we stopped a long time ago. I told her she wasn't ready to meet them yet and she told me that we should just break up then, so I'm trying to make it happen because I know otherwise it'll lead to more issues
You're the one who started to talk about whether or not the husband is in the wrong. So don't complain about something you wanted.
I just said his saying she is better of dead is not acceptable, that it (from what she said) does not seem to have any regard for her depression state, and that they both need professional help.
This seem to cause some personal issues for you and I can see it anger you. So I will take your advice and abandon this unproductive conversation.
It's funny because I'm that kind of person who doesn't really want to get married. My bf and I have been together for a few years and we are happy this way but he knows my point on marriage. But in this case I agree with you. OP doesn't seem like he wants to.