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Ok, so let's consider: you're 25, not 18, but your description of events depict you as someone that acts like a frustrated teenager. That having been said,
going forward, DOCUMENT EVERYTHING! What you should have done is used your phone to take photos of the mess you encountered. You should have recorded everything Katy said, especially relating to her emotional problems. Had you done this, Katy's accusations could have been proven false.
What you did showed an emotional reaction to adverse conditions. I might point out that the emotional reaction you took only made things worse. A more mature reaction would have been to document the situation as you found it, and would have shown that your main interest was in resolving the problems, not placing blame. Had you documented the situation, and made that documentation available to management, it would have made it possible for them to know not only what and when the problem occurred, and the main reason (Katy) if failed to be resolved in a timely manner.
Also, consider that you have two ears, and one mouth. You should use them in that proportion. Never, never, vent your frustrations in a work environment as you did, because steam is naked, but the only one burned by your “blowing off steam” was you.
Learn from your mistakes.
'Nuff said.
It sounds like fantasy talk, but maybe a good thing to do would be to indulge each other’s fantasies? Not to say you should wear black lipstick, but what if you role played with him and dressed goth one evening? Not even to go out anywhere but just to act out his fantasy with him? He suggested something he was into, which means he was vulnerable with you and took a risk, and he instantly got shut down. That’s something someone may internalize and make him hesitant to share again in the future.
You can in return share something with him you’d like, and maybe he can do something to help you enjoy that. Maybe he can dress like Santa Claus and have a sack full of BDSM gear, or whatever you’re into…
Point being, don’t just shut down the conversation because he almost certainly wasn’t suggesting being with someone else, unless he is cruel and seeks to prey on your known insecurities. Sounds like he’d like to be balls deep in you with black lipstick and goth gear. Go with it!
That's hilarious. Undoubtedly the right play for everyone, including you, is to hush
Haha nice 🙂 Good luck with the talk! I hope he listens to you and that his vocabulary towards you changes.
Well.. maybe it wouldn't hurt to tell her just that and then see her reaction. I would also ask her if she had something in mind like: “untilk I'm not out of school/collage (whatever) no dating” or if it is an emotional problem she has. But don't stay around if you feel it gets to burdening to you.. Your emotions and psychological health is important too.
You can leave even with the door open for her to knock any time (metaphorically speaking) you know?
I say she needs to stop breathing. His ex did that to. You guys think she used a toilet? Man… So many possibilities!
You aren't solving his situation either. If he followed what you said, assuming there is a mother around and living close, most women would file for divorce. You are telling a man who has 2 children and a pregnant wife that also works a full time job to literally give all his responsibilities away to another person while he goes and does what ? That screams of divorce behavior. And you're right I don't need to get heated towards you, your future wife will do plenty of that on her own cause you sound amazing.
He’s at least thinking about it and looking to justify it
Girl, that is not a friend. You need to cut her off
Bro you are a real gem lol
And i’m sure “Butter Dog” has a high-paid physical trainer, high-quality, expensive cuts of meat, and other benefits towards his athletic aptitude; I promise you it’s not raw meat and butter that is making this person good at sports. Your gf is right, you’re only going to make yourself sick by buying low-grade meat and eating it raw. Is this a troll? Are you actually serious about this?
you're making great points but the person only posted to hear what they wanted to hear. what is that bizarre shit analogy, I don't know, lol.
You simply have to make it clear, have the talk and clearly set the boundaries, let him know how you feel, and keep in mind that just because something seems clear and obvious to you, doesn't mean it is to him, he might be completely clueless to what you're going through because you two did not properly set said boundaries.
Any time somebody can’t laugh with you, it’s a point of struggle for the relationship. It’s not the end of all things, but if he’s closing down over it, you might consider telling him, “Get over it: I’m sorry the joke was in poor taste, but it’s time to let it go.”
I mean how in the hell is she supposed to change that?
Yap, it really sucks, people want connections, but can't be bothered to put in the effort, they're not really interested in the work, they just magically want to have the friend.
I'd say as an adult a fair share of my friend making has ended in them not replying or just not being interested anymore, but it started great and interesting; a bordem breaker as it will, not genuine interest.
I’ve been married for 22 years you dumb twat.
He wanted a servant and he’s trying to break your confidence so you don’t realise you deserve better. Gaslighting you as the problem and not him having to rise up to meet you.
A good husband would be so proud of his wife for following her dreams and doing so well at her job and finding happiness and confidence. Yet all your husband cares about is you not getting the chores and cooking done. He wanted a mummy, not a wife.
My brother, she quite literally SAID, like she actually plainly and clearly TYPED OUT that she “begged him not to sleep with the other woman, but he did anyway”.
The “but he did anyway” literally means that he had sex with the other woman. I'm not sure how you read it any other way. He slept with someone else after she begged him not to. Her begging him not to means she wasn't ok with it, therefore, he cheated on her by sleeping with someone else
Now you've told him the first story its going to be so much harder to believe the second story
Regardless of his thoughts though it's best to get some therapy if you think it will help you
He is the problem, not you.
And you have dodged a bullet by no longer being engaged with him. So end the relationship fully (if you haven’t already done so)
Now make sure the rest of the bullets hit him squarely by telling everyone that he has been unfaithful in the relationship – it won’t matter to his family (especially parents and the generations older than him) that it was supposedly an open relationship (I say supposedly as a true open relationship is above all else – equal. So if you are not allowed to see local guys, he is not allowed to see local girls etc.) as they either won’t understand it, or won’t accept it, so his seeing of other women is cheating as far as they will be concerned.
I would definitely be upset after letting them know in advance that my birthday was coming up. I would also hear them out and see what they had to say. But your feeling of being upset is absolutely understandable and justified and if he comes back at you in a defensive or attacking way, that’s not going to fly.
I'm sorry, but I'm going to be blunt. Lol it is the WORST idea to give negative feedback while in bed. That's insane to me. I would be so offended if my boyfriend did that to me. You pushed and pushed for him to answer your question. He didn't want to tell you. You need to be able to take feedback sexually. You can't get offended or nothing will get better. He probably just feels uncomfortable directing you during sex, a lot of young people are. It has nothing to do about appreciatation. If I was in this situation with a man, I'd be genuinely upset if they questioned my appreciation because I got pushed for feedback
But also Ive taught a bunch of women and gay men how to give blowjobs, you can PM me for tips. Oral is a skill to learn. You're not gonna be good at it right away
I, however, have two parents who are both still married, so I am having trouble seeing it this way. I would be okay to not sign the papers and still have a ceremony, but I am a bit worried without that legal fallback.
OP, I think if you want to be able to discuss this with him you need to be able to describe, in very concrete terms, what you think the advantages (for both you and him) would be for a proper legal marriage. Right now he has an idea of marriage in his head where the cons massively outweigh the pros, meanwhile you seem to have a very vague conception that marriage would be good because it avoids trouble. That's not good enough for any kind of substantive discussion between the two of you, you need to be arguing based on the same set of mutually acknowledged facts.
If you went to him today and asked him about this, and he asked you to give three solid reasons for why he should get legally married and risk losing half his stuff, what would your answer be? If he asked you why those three things outweigh the risk of losing half his stuff, what would your answer be? Saying something like “well I don't think we'll ever break up so there's no risk to you losing your stuff” doesn't cut it, nobody gets married expecting that they'll divorce later. You need to show him why the risk is worth the reward.
And the cloud!