He is a cheater and you are just room mates. Stop cooking for and looking after him in any way and just on-line your own life, you'll feel so much less hurt & resentful if you give nothing.
Don't bother wasteing time asking ( begging) him to change/speak nicely, just treat anything he says thats not respectfull as silence , literally just pretend he didn't speak until he approaches you politely . He'll soon learn.
I'm concerned about her comment there on “seeking out resources,” to solve the emotional abuse
Like girl you already have your resource. A phone and presumably two working thumbs. Text him that he's being dumped because he's too controlling and insecure. Goddamn. There aren't magical resources to fix people like this, they have to fix themselves
Can't have your cake and eat it too. Let him go and leave his mental state to himself, or stay with him Up to you.
He is a cheater and you are just room mates. Stop cooking for and looking after him in any way and just on-line your own life, you'll feel so much less hurt & resentful if you give nothing.
Don't bother wasteing time asking ( begging) him to change/speak nicely, just treat anything he says thats not respectfull as silence , literally just pretend he didn't speak until he approaches you politely . He'll soon learn.
I'm concerned about her comment there on “seeking out resources,” to solve the emotional abuse
Like girl you already have your resource. A phone and presumably two working thumbs. Text him that he's being dumped because he's too controlling and insecure. Goddamn. There aren't magical resources to fix people like this, they have to fix themselves
This shit pisses me off too. It’s not poly TM