I would not give her any promises but I would agree to start going to therapy together if you want to try and give her another chance. Go to therapy and get it all out into the open. Make sure you open up and let her know all your fears and feelings about moving forward together and make sure she takes all these feelings and accepts and validates them. She can't pretend like you don't have a say in things.
I get that you hate it but it's either you take the smart route or you end up pushing this dude into fucking over his career just for a quick lay.
Drunk actions are sober thoughts. On that note she is the one that is going to do alot of the heavy lifting. With the therapy and STD/I panels.
You never owe anyone your love or friendship.
I would not give her any promises but I would agree to start going to therapy together if you want to try and give her another chance. Go to therapy and get it all out into the open. Make sure you open up and let her know all your fears and feelings about moving forward together and make sure she takes all these feelings and accepts and validates them. She can't pretend like you don't have a say in things.
Exactly. A driver who's so good that he almost lost his license